mysterious around guys? like what do i say? how do i turn a guy on by acting mysterious?
2006-09-22 16:54:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I WANT TO BE MYSTERIOUS!!!......
how?
2006-09-22 16:58:09 · update #1
The problem with the "act mysterious" approach is that, like all "acting," it will attract an audience, but not real companions. If you attract a man by being "mysterious," then later when you need to be straightforward and practical, he will not understand, and he will hate you for changing.
A better class of men will avoid "mysterious" women and prefer those who have strong interests, a knowledge base, and a sense of reality. Such people communicate directly and let their wishes be known.
The best definition of "sanity" is "dedication to reality at any cost."
2006-09-22 17:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by aviophage 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I use to ask myself this question-and I've realize as corny as it sounds the true key is to be yourself-but also a little conservative. Now, I've read in Cosmo that guys like mysterious women-because they don't put it all out there, so of course this attracts the guy to the gal, and he is determined to find more answers from her-who isn't determined to seek answers to what he/she wonders/don't know about?. I actually like to act mysterious around guys because I know it turns most of them on-they always want what they can't have; and a lot like the hard to get. Now, like I said be yourself-I am, yet be reserved-thus being mysterious-that's how I act-I'm not blunt because I know what I like in a guy is a little mystery; so if I'm attracted to that type, what's not to say he isn't attracted to that type of female?. Being mysterious means, that when talk about a noun or whatever else-you aren't specific-ex: a guy asks you if you have a job, instead of ranting on about what and how much it sucks etc. you simple reply back with a yes, and that intrigues him to ask more questions-thus getting to know you better on a personal level, because he is asking the questions-your not just be annoying blabbing on-you make him ask more because your discreet.The one true reason I don't put myself out there though, is because if you don't keep some reservation, you look like an idiot-or make an as s out of yourself and tha can ruin that one chance you had, plus there are a lot of things I'd rather discuss with them if they choose to get to know me, instead of coercing into a conversation that is just stale.
2006-09-22 18:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question itself is too vague and mysterious, are you saying you think your mysterious or are you saying you want to be mysterious.
2006-09-22 16:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy doesnt like a girl to "act" just be yourself, u cant spend your life "acting" trying to be mysterious to get his attention. be true to yourself and be you!
2006-09-22 17:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by t r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
already sounds mysterious.
2006-09-23 06:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple: do not chatter... do not talk... do not simper... do not make eyes... do not fuss with your hair, hands, nails, dress... just paste a small polite smile on your lips, have a steady gaze without looking at anyone in particular (especially not at the one you are interested in) and think of something absorbing.... that will give you a far-away look.
Takes practice if it doesn't come natural
2006-09-22 22:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Phoebhart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. Don't chase them. Make them come to you.
2006-09-22 17:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋