I was happy for the first time in my life felt loved & he was the person i'd always wanted, socially concious, independent, rationial, romantic and sweet. I just remember how he looked at me, like nothing else in the world mattered,stole my heart. I told him i love you&he said "give me a week" which hurt, but i believed&waited 2wks. We were both virgins & planned to be eachothers first. one night yes, he put in just the tip,i felt trapped &was afraid of so many things. So i said wait & he slowly retracted his body. Then i told him the words ill never forget,while he was naked, i dont even feel like i know you, you dont let me in, he just looked at the floor & nodded. the next day we broke up,i think he wanted to make it mutual because he'd been dumped many times.he said mean things,he dumped me,my friends believed,stopped going out to avoid me.He used to come to my window at night and kiss me through the screen,brought me 12 red roses @graduation He hates me, has g/f, i still love him
2006-09-22 16:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
6 months after i wrote him a letter and called him to deliver it, he offered to come by and get it and he did, it was so nice to see him again, have one of his hugs. all he could say is that the love that i felt wasnt real again he didnt look me in the eye i didnt know what to say, so i didnt say anything, and i let him leave again, he had gotten to the door and said he forgot something, the letter, if he really never cared why would he care about a stupid letter from a stupid girl who is delusional about what she felt? I moved away far away to try and forget him but it didnt work, i wrote my songs about him, i couldnt get him out of my heart. I lived away for another year, then moved back, and tried to ignore the thought of him in the back of my mind, he has a girlfriend, he looks sort of happy not how i knew him. i wrote him again, this time sent the letter and saw him afterward, he saw me before i saw him, and tried to hide behind his g/f i barely recognized him, with the dreads
2006-09-22 16:46:33 · update #1
Sounds likes you cut yourself off emotionally so you wouldn't feel anything anymore. All I can tell you is give it time. I went through the same crap. You just move on. You have to. I have met someone 100 million times better and I'm glad I got dumped by him. Now I have a sweet fiance and a nice two carat platinum ring. Good things come to those who wait. Once you find someone else, your heart will open back up. It's natural to feel scared and be scared of getting hurt. It's never easy to recover because you never get over the fear of rejection. Give yourself time to heal. Everyone is different.
2006-09-22 16:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by spankedelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls get over him and try to get your self a good man ...someone that will love you and respect you. If you respect yourself then they will respect you. Try not to forgett your values and beliefs just for some guy when the right guy comes along you will know because he will be the best guy ever and will treat you like a queen
2006-09-22 23:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up , find all the things you found in him in a guy that really does love you, becuase if he loved you as you did him he'd been there the next day for you
2006-09-22 23:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wanted to sleep with you.He's a jerk .
2006-09-22 23:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm. get ur heart back hunny.
2006-09-22 23:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋