whom wil u select,,wen u r given an option to select betwen 2 important people in your life................and most important is if its between the person whom u luv as ur life and the other is ur parents who has made u something in ur life....wen its our parents who has moulded us,giving lots of values in life and its some one else who luvs u a lot
plz give a serious answer
2006-09-22 16:33:27 · 22 answers · asked by Manu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kind of confusing. Well if I had my way I would tell my parents atleast to meet my love. There should be somthing in him taht made 'cha love him. Try to show it to them and if they are stubborn, be stubborn, if they find reason of not letting you marry him, think about it with the reason in your mind and if they agree, i wish you a happy and prosperous life. adios amigos
2006-09-22 18:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by vishal_willpower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? It depends on the situation. Like what I had before. I'm a single mom. When I was pregnant, me and the father of my baby always fought. He never gave any support at all. The persons who were and always have been there for me are my parents. The parents of my baby's father never give a damn about me that I was carrying their grandchild. And so, I gave birth. My parents shouldered all the expenses. My father who loves me so much was of course, hurt and upset about the situation. My baby's christening day came. My father told me that if I let my baby's father attend the occasion, my father will not show up. And so, I made a choice. I did not let my baby's father attend the christening of my baby. I know, it's mean. But hey, was he there for me when I needed him the most? NO. Did he or any of his family members ever supported me when I was pregnant? NO. And I think what I did was right and fair. In your case, like I said, it depends on the situation. You have to elaborate more. Because most of the time, our parents are right. They can see things that we can't see yet. Because they have gone through life already more than we have.
2006-09-22 16:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel pulled in two different directions when you don't realize that although your parents raised you they can't run your adult life. A good parent must understand when to back off and respect the decisions of their adult kids. Parents are to be respected, but if they are disrespectful to your hubby they have crossed the line (I'm assuming you're married and/or moved out). Sometimes you have to distance yourself from them for them to come to grips with your decision. Don't get into no arguments with them over your choice. It's not worth it. Don't let them destroy the peace of your home. Ya'll just stay home and enjoy each other. Too bad it has to be this way, huh.
2006-09-22 16:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply the values given by your parents to give importance to"your life".
2006-09-22 22:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you shouldnt put anyone first other than your self. You should love your family and the person you will spend the rest of your life with equally. If anyone is trying to make you choose from one or the other then tell them that you will not choose between them, you love them all equally and you will not give up on any of them and also if they are trying to make you give up on the people you love then you should tell them to look at their own lifes and to tell you if they can choose from their loved one and their family.
take care and good luck
2006-09-22 16:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chose the person i Love. then again my family really hasnt been to great to me over the years. I mean yeah my mom did good raiseing me as a child but when i turned into a teen it was as if she didnt care about me anymore. I havent talked to her an months now, dont plan on doing it either
2006-09-22 16:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a easy one. you parents tought u all of the values u mentioned. no doubtedly one was commiting to your word. well u go with the one you love. no matter what happens your parents will love you. soon enough they will realize that she can love u like they cant and that she is what makes u happy. since they love u and want u to be happy it will all smooth over soon enough if your parents are as you decribed them to be.
short awnser:the one u lov as ur life
2006-09-22 16:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by jp_todd@swbell.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you answered it yourself. You gave a whole bunch of detail about your parents loving you and the love of your life. I think its important that if you love them both try to geth them to get along and if not possile i would say parents. You know the old saying "I brought you into this world, i can easily take you out."
2006-09-22 16:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isnt a question. where are all those values you are talking about, you gotta show them what you have learned man, take this as your opportunity and get good karma, this will help you throughout this life. Go with your parents.
2006-09-22 16:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard! i say that if your parents have taught you good values, then they will know that the person you love as your life is a choice that is good and valuable, hence you choose both your parents and the "important person"
2006-09-22 16:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋