Ok, so this one girl i really like, she has a great personality and we seem to get along very well and have similar personalities and tastes. I'm attracted to her a lot but it feels like more than just physical attraction. However, i'm not really sure whether she feels the same way. Although she might, and there are times that it seems like it but at times it doesn't.
This second girl i like, we don't really have a lot in common, but i am very sexually attracted to her. She is so hot, and she seems to be a lot more interested in me than the first.
Problem is i just left my country a few months ago and probagbly won't be back in 6/7 months. Maybe thats why the first girl is so reserved. But the second one doesn't seem to care about the distance at all and may be willing to wait. Help! What do i do?
2006-09-22 16:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by undecided_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to the second gurl u like and tell her how u feel and if she feels the same way than talk to her about your moving and call her everyday cause if not she'll get mad trust me i know. LOL and about the first gurl i won't get to caught up on her she might break your heart way too fast dude LOL chica talkin'
2006-09-22 16:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by chica sexy LOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the only thing attracting you to the 2nd girl her body? If so, you need to ask yourself whether or not you want someone who has a great body or someone who you genuinely cares about, emotionally and physically. After you answer, ask the 1st girl exactly how she feels about you. How would you know how she feels if you don't ask? Put yourself out there 1st though; don't wait for her to say that she likes you 1st. She may be a bit reserved b/c she thinks that since you're leaving she needs to save her emotions for someoen else, b/c she thinks YOU might not be able to wait till you come back. GOOD LUCK w/everything!
2006-09-22 23:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean that you won't see either one for 6-7 months? if so, then anything could happen by then. keep talkin to both of them since thats all you can do anyway til you get back. See what develops. It seems that the first girl would be better for you though.
2006-09-22 23:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to find out if the second girl is willing to wait. also you need to see or maybe even talk to the first girl to see what's on her mind
2006-09-22 23:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by marlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with both of them and see who's still around when you get back.
2006-09-22 23:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow what ur heart tells you.. u r just sexually attracted to the second one. it doesnt guaranty you happiness. after sex, what's next? u can answer ur own question. choose who can make u happy.. good luck!
2006-09-22 23:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask the one that is more emotionally distant if she likes you.
If they both want you, then you have a choice to make.
2006-09-22 23:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M TAKING CARE OF BOTH GIRLS NOW.
2006-09-22 23:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Con 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋