my new b/f we kinda knew each other since the first day of school and we both had and a thing for each other.but i have drama that i can't hold back the tears. my ex well for u guys that don't know i skip with him 1 day got suspeded the next day and skip school again he wanted to have sex but i was too scared and i said no because my mom just the day before i skip was talking to me about it and i just couldn't break my parents heart to do that **** and i didn't love him. now with my new b/f i found out that my ex is talking **** like braging when he used to be with me but saying I'M STILL A LITTLE DADDY'S GIRL!! because i won't do it with him. that hurts me. but i just don't want to get hit again or see my dad's and mom's tears again i'm going to tell my mom what he's saying. now about my new b/f a girl wrote him a love note and he told me so i trust him but he went on the dance with out me. i can't go cause i lost my folks trust cause of my decions oh my folks say NO B/F! SO...
2006-09-22 16:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by chica sexy LOL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all...take a breath, ok? I know that when you're 13, everything seems like a life and death situation, but believe me, that's not the case.
I'm not sure what you want an answer to, exactly, but as far as your parents are concerned - you lost their trust. Now you need to be patient and earn it back.
As for the ex - who cares if he says you're a daddy's girl?? Hunny, I'm pushing 40, my dad has been dead since I was 28 and I'm STILL daddy's girl. Always will be. Nothing wrong with it.
And by the way - good for you for saying "no" to the ex! You're 13, there's plenty of time ahead of you for sex. Wait until you're ready.
2006-09-22 16:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a lot of drama my x boyfriend skipped this entire week to do god knows what. He's a slacker so I dont like scince he just doesnt bother doing anything besides eating sleeping and crapping I dont see the motive to skip school the make up work and having to lie to everyone about where I was that means you should have never skipped in the 1st place
2006-09-22 23:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Alli S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 you have a while before you need to think about sex. don't get hung up on it. when you are ready you will know. as far as your new boyfriend, if he told you about the letter then trust him about going to the dance with out you. if he really likes you then he will stay true. i would not tell your mom and dad about what then other guy is saying about the sex thing. he just needs to grow up.
2006-09-22 23:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be thinking about having sex. I am 18, so don't think like oh my god another adult disagreeing. I am still young and I understand that it is hard to avoid those little boys with there horny asses. But just wait, trust me you will find trhe right one. Don't just believe everything they tell you because you can get hurt. You will regret it if you lose your virginity to someone who does not actually love you. Follow your heart not your body.
2006-09-22 23:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by ANathaniel18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry . that does suck but if you guys are 13 the thought of sex shouldnt even be in your heads. im glad you said no. that was a good thing to do. and about your ex boyfriend, hes just being immature. guys do that sometime so id suggest you get used to it, and girls gah they always want whats someone elses so the little love letter, as long as he told you about it i wouldnt worry. shell get over it eventually.
best of luck and dont worry youll gain your parents trust back eventually. i just hope its soon
⥠Jordan Alexis
2006-09-22 23:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling!That guys is a jerk and the only thing you can do is say he is lyin' as far as your parents they will trust you again later.DON'T go running to mommy though, you need to handle this yourself or you'll just prove him right.as of your new b/f it won't last but I know from expeirence on the first love stuff but enjoy it while it lasts....good luck
2006-09-22 23:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wow thats a big problem u got there...... um well first off dont have sex wit him if u dont wanna cuz thats jus wrong and dont do anything bad and if u do then dont get caught by yur parents cuz then they'll not trust u even more.....if u need any more advice or anything email me robertthejetsfan@yahoo.com
2006-09-22 23:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by robertthejetsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 .. and your Bf wants sex with you?
Geez ... It's his Hormones reacting. Refuse it.
2006-09-22 23:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by ampzphd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 13, don't have sex yet, ur not ready
2006-09-22 23:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your folks say no, so no.
2006-09-22 23:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋