this guy i like, he doesn't know i like him, but i've liked him since april. i never showed him in any way how i feel about him, except i tried (and failed) 2 impress him. in class, he was always talking 2 this girl, and i think he likes her now. last wednesday (that was my b-day) i saw them in the hall. he was kissing/licking her face. everyone was watching, including me and my friends. i was so shocked, i refused 2 believe it. but i had 2. people started spreading rumors of how they are 2gether. they don't even "match". i like the girl looks better with her ex, just cuz. what should i do? i HAVE 2 WIN that guy. he is PERFECT 4 me. we are currently friends and understand each other. he helped me through my problems last year, and that is the #1 reason i luv him. i don't want 2 hurt the other girl, though. she's not my friend, but she is still nice 2 me and we talk once in a while. the problem i have with her is that she is popular and im not. please help.
2006-09-22 16:06:23 · 16 answers · asked by gelly700 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't tell me 2 move on. he is the only guy i will be like. why? that's a long a story, but 2 make it shorter, he changed my life. 4EVER. if i reallt loose him, i will die. i mean it.
2006-09-23 06:14:52 · update #1
our school is having a musical soon, and im gonna try out 4 the lead. i heard that he is into girls who are good singers/actresses. what do u think?
2006-09-24 10:28:20 · update #2
It's always hard when someone you like or care about doesn't like you back...or for that matter, seems to like someone else entirely out of the picture. That's a toughie in the first place, but to answer ur main Q...You said ya'll are friends; If you think u'r close enough to him to understand each other, you might want to discuss ur feelings w/ him. Tell him about your strong feelings and how hard it was for you to see him w/ the other girl. If he doesn't seem to get the hint, he might just not be the one for you. That's a hard part of life! Good luck, though! Hope it goes well!
2006-09-22 16:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by ryansbabygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things aren't meant to be, then they aren't meant to be. You can't force someone to like you even though you really love him. I understand that it is hard to see the person you really like go after another girl, but you have to accept it. Now you have three choices; 1) chase after him, even though you know that you will hurt the other girl if you do 2) stick around continuing the way you are (liking but never receiving anything in return), and hope for a day when he would finally love you back or 3) you move on and forget about something that never even had a begininning. find someone who deserves you and really likes you back. GOOD LUCK w/everything!
2006-09-22 23:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go for a guy who already turned me down and is kissing and licking another girls face in front of everyone. I think he is a player not ready to settle down with just one girl.
2006-09-22 23:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this...I didnt when I was your age, but MOVE ON! There is nothing you can do to make this guy like you. Anything you do will only make you look desperate at this point. Really, the only thing you can do is forget about him, this will be what finally makes him like you if anything ever will. Guys your age don't like girls who like them, they like girls that take a little effort to get. They like a little mystery, they like "the chase". Trust me....anything you do now to make him like you will only make him think you are desperate.
2006-09-22 23:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by kc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well gurl u lost him because you didn't act sooner but u know what i can give u adivce? is that only the quiet ones and the ones with bad fashion chocies are usally the not so popular. so try to be outgoing alot and change your look too.
2006-09-22 23:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by chica sexy LOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry. the only thing i can say to do, is tell him. text him, or write a note if you are shy. If he doesnt feel the same, than i guess you have to wait, but if u like him enough than he's worth the wait. good luck.
2006-09-22 23:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont move, u lose.
u have to get him alone.
and then show him your breasts!
then bone his brains out!
that other girl wont stand a chance now.
2006-09-22 23:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look u like him rite and you really want him so tell him how u feel and wat u think but dont tell him to much and dont say u love him it may drive him away. he may kinda have feeling 4 u u never know.
2006-09-24 12:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by dani s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him so he'll cheat on you again, it's always a charm.
2006-09-22 23:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by stygianmoloch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what can you do? i know you love him but what if he doesnt. i know that i would just as devastated if that happened to me, but maybe you should wait to see what happens between them. then make your move.
2006-09-22 23:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by marlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋