well like i have a ton of friends and this guy is like totaly one of my best ones. he is really charming, funny, nice, and cute (but is not the hottest guy in the world). well i found out that he likes my girl bff and she likes him back. i dont know whether to be jealous or happy? please help!
2006-09-22 16:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by CaRoLiNe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx guys all theese answers are really good and the 9th one is hillarious!
2006-09-23 03:06:58 · update #1
You have already said that he is one of you bff...be happy! It is better to have him in your life as a friend than not at all!
2006-09-22 16:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by princess2grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I solved all high school drama problems by attending an all-male school. Well, mostly all.
I was the boy in this very situation, except I was actually the boyfriend of the girl whose BFF I befriended. And I really did befriend her. Since, I have been separated from my now ex-girlfriend, but the BFF in question cannot date for a few more years, and so a relationship besides email and the such is not possible.
So all in all, I can't answer your question. What a lame answer that is.
2006-09-22 23:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Derek Southerby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar senerio, it sucks cause you kind wish someone will like you too the way they like each other. Just let it go and be happy for them. It's better that you all stay good friends than to make new enemies.
2006-09-22 23:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being a little jealous. Try your hardest to be happy for your friend, but if you need to, tell someone how you feel who's outside of your circle of friends.
2006-09-22 23:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by musicgirl152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be happy for her. If she doesn't get that many dates, then you should definitely be happy. And if it bothers you, and you really are jealous, talk to her about it or the whole thing will be bitter.
2006-09-22 23:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mel_Sprite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest that happens allot! but really if you dont see him as a bf then you should try your best just to be happy for them. You dont want to lose him as a friend, and when it falls apart you will be there for him, and if you two are ment to be then it will happen when you least expect it too!
2006-09-22 23:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by redneckwomen098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy, on the outside, jealous on the inside. =] I totally know how you feel. Good luck!
2006-09-22 23:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gaspxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats a hard situation you will probalby be jealous of them untill you get over him and find someone else to like...its hard to see the person that you saw urself with, with one of ur best friends...good luck girl
2006-09-22 23:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by aly86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for them he's just a friend to you not your ex or anything right?
2006-09-22 23:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy. and always be there for your friend. you would want her to do the same for you. There are plenty of great guys out there. You'll find one....
2006-09-22 23:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋