My boyfriend for several months and I have been sleeping together. He is 26 and I am 23. sometimes, though, he goes limp and can't get hard again and if he doesn't go soft, he gets off withing five minutes. Cometimes though, he is just fin...What can cause this? Do many men that young have dyfunctions like that?
2006-09-22 16:02:49 · 11 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, It's hard to get it hard again. Believe me I'm a guy. After releasing once. It's difficult to get hard. [For me at least] Maybe because he's the type the doesn't masterbate so he blows easily and fast. Hmm, So you want the sex to last longer?
2006-09-22 16:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by ampzphd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kind of normal, it all depends on the day. A lot of things have to be factored into it all. If he is always stressed or works a stressful job that can be the limp part, and really it does not take more then 10 minutes or less for a guy to ***. Honestly get Viagra and tell him to masturbate the morning off, you will be just fine.
2006-09-22 23:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it only happens occasionally, it sounds like more of a psychological problem rather than a physical problem. Just don't make a big deal out of it, or it will get worse. He needs to feel completely comfortable with how his body works and how you respond to it. When that happens, find something else sexual to do that doesn't require him being hard. He will probably get hard again if he doesn't feel any pressure or embarrasment. Reassure him that he is sexy even though he isn't hard.
2006-09-22 23:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE, I'm 20 and my girl says that i can go to damn long. She's right here now. It's a shame that guys can disappoint their lovers like that. I think it is completely selfish and is total BULLSH*T. Every guy should be banned from getting laid forever if he is under 30 going limp.... that's just what i think. Call him Limpie, maybe he'll keep it up!
2006-09-22 23:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect its all your fault.. you are probably not attractive to him any more.. others will tell you that its common that its anxiety or stress, its not you are just not doing it for him anymore, he will be looking around but wont want to dump you till he gets a better looker.
That said you can probably hang on a little longer by spicing up your sex life, but you are probably just stalling for time. Most guys want younger not older girls after all.
2006-09-22 23:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is 25 he will be 26 in two days and he is like that. i think that it comes from stress. it seems like when he has alot of stuff to do or when he is pissed off he get's that way. it really sucks sometimes. sometimes i feel like i'm not doing somethin right or that he isn't attracted to me. it also sucks when your really into it and he get's off quick or he can't get it up! i don't know what to do about it if i ever find out i will let you know.
2006-09-22 23:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he been examined by a doctor? It's not the usual as far as I know. Is he on medication or using drugs? He can learn to delay ejaculation if he is willing to learn but this condition doesn't sound kosher.
2006-09-22 23:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of toung men go through this same problem. It's just that they get too excited that they don't give themselves enough time to actually enjoy themselves. Tell him to slow down and try to make love and not just f**k.
2006-09-22 23:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by ANathaniel18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps both of you have sex too much in a week..try to minimize the tempo and advise your boyfriend to take more food rich in iron and potassium.
2006-09-22 23:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he addicted to porn? that could be one reason, or maybe he does not produce enough testosterone, either way he should go to a doctor first and then see what he can do to help.
2006-09-22 23:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋