seatmate(just one semester) turned SEXMATE but he has a pregnant gf...help!?
i have a seatmate this semester and i rarely talk to him. but since he's also my groupmate in our report, i had to know his contact number.he started texting and calling me because of our report.but we became so open that we started talking about very private things like sex.i dont know how it started but after a just a few days talking on the phone, we agreed that we'd have sex after class.i still had to make an excuse to my friends that i cant go with them because i'm going somewhere else.we met several blocks away from school so no one could see us.we went to a hotel then we had sex,twice.the problem is i know he has a girlfriend and she's 4 months pregnant.i'm kinda feeling gulity at the same time i'm excited 'coz i wanna do it again with him.he doesnt want to wear condom so im also afraid that i might get pregnant.and im starting to fall for him.its kinda weird coz im not a bitchy type but i did that and the fact that he's just me seatmate.pls give me some advice.im depressed
2006-09-22 15:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Joe Rafer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sneaking around, lying to your friends, unprotected sex......Time to grow up!! You said semester, I assume you are in college. Nothing like a baby to end your college career. Or maybe HIV to end your life. I am amazed that so many young women think so little of themselves that they will sleep with anything that walks. If he would cheat on a pregnant girlfriend, why do you want to be with him? Find yourself a nice guy that will respect you, and if things work out, have sex with him only. Use protection and get tested too. You are probably not the only one he is sleeping with. Sorry.........
2006-09-22 16:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one he has a girlfriend who is pregnant and for two if he is cheating on her then what makes you think if you two get together he won't cheat on you? i would STAY AWAY!!!! if you keep it going it only means trouble. aparently he has no morals of any kind. that's just wrong. cheating on his girlfriend when she is pregnant that is the lowist you can get. do you really want to be with someone who is going to have a baby? there is nothing wrong with that if your ready but your in school so your education and career should be your first priority. if he dumos his girlfriend then by all means go for it just be really careful he might end up getting you pregnant and cheating on you just like he's doing to his girlfriend now. is that what you want? either that or giving you a disease if he doesn't wear a rubber. good luck hope you the best.
2006-09-22 15:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by lem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End the sexual encounters, and keep the "relationship" on a "professional" level for the sake of dealing with him in class. To be honest, this is not the type of guy you want to "fall" for. As for the unprotected sex, I would be worrying about more than just getting pregnant. Take Care.
2006-09-22 15:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by princess2grasshopper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please don't think that he will be with you if you get pregnant. he obvouisly is not a good bf if he is sleeping with you and has basically a wife that is pregnant. find a guy that is single with no ties to anyone else. you will just be the hurt one in the long run. plus whos to say his gf will never find out about you guys...everything gets around!!!
2006-09-22 15:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a booty call........... and no condom????? are you on crack??? I guess you are depressed.... Listen if he does this to her, he'll do it to you too...don't kid yourself...you are nothing more than apiece of *** and he cares nothing for you or he would protect you by wrapping that puppy up... What kind of woman ... entices another womans man ??/ you are a skank!!!
2006-09-22 16:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats f*cked up that you know his girl is prego, and you're still mess'n with him. also use a damn condom.....geeez
2006-09-22 15:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by whosaidthat? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just what are you doing but you dont love him
2006-09-22 15:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋