Do you stop looking at other women when you are truly in lurve?
2006-09-22 15:43:14 · 43 answers · asked by answer me this..... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-22 15:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by RyeBerry 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Light flirting is fun, sort of like a couple of comments etc that doesn't mean i'm going to do anything about it. I am not, I subscribe to the theory that one woman is definitely enough.
I would however be sensitive to my girlfriend and if she didn't like it I wouldn't do it. I would not be really happy with the fact that I will compromise this part of me because she is insecure, but will do it anyway to help to build her confidence or alternatively to keep the peace.
Flirting outrageously or alternatively flirting generally when ones girlfriend is present whjle not paying attention to ones girlfriend is entirely a different subject, and my view on that is that it is totally insensitive, and possibly downright mean.
Never make someone wrong for having fun. There are just boundaries that shouldn't be crossed
2006-09-22 20:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not answer for all men out there but if i were truly in love i may look at other women, flirt, but at the end of the day i know that i have a woman waiting for me and would not do anything stupid to jeopardize that.
Some guys might also share my philosophy.
2006-09-22 15:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by OJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wen i really like someone i tend to shot off to other men and its really hard for a guy to chat me up, but dont get me wrong u do still notice people who u would seriously be attracted to just dat if u where really i lurve u wouldnt act upon it. i mean people say i would marry goerge clooney if he came along and so forth for the guys, maybe i shouldnt have answerd this im a woman.ive seen good man hurt by woman who stray then they turned bad for the good ones dat come along
peace
2006-09-22 17:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men never stop lookin AT other women, but we might stop looking FOR them.
No matter how committed the relationship, no matter how much a guy loves his woman, if a piece of eyecandy walks past guys will notice her. They may even flirt.
It doesn't mean he loves his woman any less.
2006-09-22 15:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I am A woman who Couldn't resist answering, I have been married for 20 yrs and I know my husband loves me, however, if he EVER stops looking at other women I will know he is up to more serious stuff!! keep looking guys!!
2006-09-22 18:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This works for both sexes and whether your Straight/Gay or Bi.
Anytime you love someone you "respect" them and would never want them to feel bad about the way you treated them or disrespected them. So, no. You would never flirt with anyone or even truly consider it because every day you woke up you would look for THEIR FACE first thing and thank god for the gift of love you had been given in that person. By reminding yourself daily what attracted you to them, you never truly "lose" that spark!
2006-09-22 15:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my opnion, no! there is nothing wrong in a man looking or being nice to other women. do women not look at other guys in the same way? what works for the goose in also good for the gander. when they are in love they have mutual respect for one another and would not take things to a compromising level with other people
2006-09-22 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment anyone be male or female stops noticing other members of the opposite sex, and stops flirting, your dead. It's natural to look and flirt. As long as it goes no further then it's okay.
2006-09-22 21:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by sminxsters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop flirting.....YES!!! Noticing.....NO! In a mature, loving and trusting relationship it should not matter if either of you acknowledge that, for example, a woman walking by is good looking and that a man is handsome.
2006-09-22 15:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she stopped flirting with other men, then yes.
But then again, I have never found a woman like this and this is why I am still single.
2006-09-22 15:48:23 · answer #11 · answered by footynutguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋