And I seriously can't find a category for this so I am putting it in a category where I spend most of my time.
2006-09-22
15:32:45
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Uh... Gary?
Did you happen to notice that "I" am the woman? haha My husband is blessing me with the wedding ring I haven't had for my birthday. We got married 4.5 years ago and have had a band which has been a blessing, but hey, if he wants to add a diamond to the collection... :)
2006-09-22
15:40:05 ·
update #1
Irritablemom and Ukjess:
I had no idea. Yes, those things DO matter to me, so thank you very much. I will talk with my husband about this before we shop and buy and "irritablemom" I will consider an alternative. I am not much into jewels and stuff so lavish so i really don't NEED a diamond. Thanks again.
2006-09-22
16:11:59 ·
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Okay, just a note from an insider on this whole conflict diamond issue..and I'm assuming you're in the US here.... in 2003 the Pres signed the National Clean Diamond Act - it is ILLEGAL to sell a "conflict diamond" in the US. Also, that movie is based on events from several years ago, not now. Not even recently. Yes, bad things still happen, but not to the degree (and let's face it, melodrama) that Hollywood would like you to believe. You may also consider purchasing a "Polar Bear Diamond", which is mined in Canada, if you uncomfortable with diamonds mined in Africa anyway. So, lots to consider when you go to look at stones.
Also, please go to a reputable, independent jeweler, whether you choose to go with a diamond, or a colored stone - the more educated you are, the better off you will be. And those chain jewelers don't want you educated, they just want your money. I highly recommend www.ags.org as a great jumping off point. Most of all, get what you want! What's the point of a beautiful stone, if you won't wear it!?!
2006-09-22 18:38:53
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answered by Randi L 5
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There's the usual stuff about cut, clarity, size - I've put a link for that below.
I'm sorry if this is a bit of a downer - I think diamonds are pretty too - but I'm afraid I'm now to the point where the most important part of buying any gemstone is the condition it was mined under. And diamonds ... well, the diamond industry has a reputation for being particularly filthy in terms of how people are treated.
There are good reasons why the upcoming DiCaprio movie about a conflict with an African diamond mining syndicate is called "Blood Diamond." Think in terms of innocent people having limbs hacked off in conflicts over diamonds, or of small, poor children in India cutting the tiny diamonds for our rings. It's pretty darned stomach-turning. And it's the harsh reality behind every one of those darned De Beers commercials.
Is there something else, perhaps some other gemstone, that might work just as well for your purposes but not have such a large human cost?
Again, sorry to be a downer. It's just that the more I think about people getting hurt so I can wear a bauble on my finger or in my ears, the less pretty those baubles look to me. You may feel differently, of course.
2006-09-22 15:50:27
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answered by IrritableMom 4
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except that's from Tiffany's or Harry Winston or another regular place like that, no i would not. i understand many anybody is vast advocates of procuring for online because of the fact you are able to keep money, yet i've got not got self belief in sacrificing high quality over value. paying for a diamond is something so you might do in my view because of the fact that's extremely trouble-free to lie to a purchaser in photos. decrease, shade and readability are issues ultimate judged in guy or woman and not in a image in spite of what the define says. in case you will make investments earnings a diamond, then i think of you ought to do it good. As for the decrease, that's all determination. in my view, i would not opt for a heart or arrows of something like that. i might choose for a greater classic around decrease or a princess decrease or maybe an emerald decrease reckoning on the placing.
2016-10-15 07:50:18
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answered by ? 4
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Like buying ANYTHING that's expensive, its best to learn a little before making a move. Talk to a REAL jeweler NOT one of those clock-punching idiots in retail stores. Someone who Actually "sets" their own stones! These guys are Hard to find but they Are out there if you look.
Also you need to familiarize yourself with the different grades of diamonds. Here is a site that will help. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 15:40:14
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answered by thart090 3
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Like Y said, the c's. You want to get a good balance between them all, but in the end it has to look good. If you are buying for someone, then make sure you pay attention to what their other jewelry looks like to see what they like.
Jewelers will try to pawn off their crappier diamonds to dumb buyers. Act like you know what you're talking about and you will get better service. NEVER buy it at sticker price. Ask if they are having a sale or flat out tell them what you will pay for the particular one you are looking at. Don't tell them exactly what you are willing to spend to begin with. It's like buying a car.
2006-09-22 15:45:41
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answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7
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Color and Clarity are two major factors.
We want an almost clear diamon with very few flaws.
Here's a site you can go to and learn more:
http://www.issues-mag.com/Sept_Oct/diamond.shtml
2006-09-22 16:29:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Diamonds are found in blue clay.
Blue clay can be found in creeks and streams.
Just a thought.
Also, uncut (rough) diamonds don't look like the ones in the stores.
Could save some money.
2006-09-22 15:41:39
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answered by maguyver727 7
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The 4 "C's": Color, Clarity, Carats (size), & Cost. A good diamond salesperson will explain these and show you the variety available. Remember, the 1st three C's will effect the 4th.
2006-09-22 15:38:45
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answered by NHBaritone 7
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yes the 4c's. But a good cut is very important, it can make a cheap diamond worth more.
2006-09-22 15:41:39
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answered by LitMit 3
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Do I really need this? O.K.- seriously, do you like it? Is the dealer reputable? Is it without flaws? Is the cut one that will hold it's value? Will the dealer allow you to return it within a certain time? (have it checked by someone else)
2006-09-22 15:38:35
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answered by Nora Explora 6
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