There's this guy that I've been seeing that used to wrok with me, but has since quit. We REALLY hit it off, we were going on dates, watching movies, hanging out, laughing, talking deeply. Things were going great. Until I saw on his phone naked pictures of a girl - a girl I know, none the less. I'm really crushed because he DIDN'T seem like that kind of guy. He's too sweet to be a sleaz. I feel like a kid again. I just dont know what to do... break up? confront him? I mean its HIS phone, but still, no girlfriend wants to see that...
2006-09-22 15:08:07 · 2 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me ask You a question; Where/Are you his "official" girlfriend or are you guys just dating? Was this guy seeing her at the Same Time? If so, you have a case! If NOT, see bellow:
I remember hooking up with the woman who eventually became my wife. We were dating and I left her at my place while I went out to get us some food. While I was gone, she went through my stuff(WITHOUT permission!!!) and found some pics and some old love letters from a girl that I had dated in the past. She complained to me about them as Soon as I got home!
I'll tell You the Same thing I told her back then. Every guy has a Right to have a past and that it was BULLS--T for her to hold things against me that I did BEFORE I even Knew her!
She asked me Why I kept that stuff. I told her that those items were "Trophies" of mine. As Stupid as it might sound, in "guy world" sometimes you have to Prove yourself as a "player" within your own "wolf pack"! You girls may Not like it but That's just the way it is!
FYI: She got over it and we've been married for over 10 years and we love and respect one another!
WHY is it you Females think you have a God Given Right to search OUR personal stuff when you start dating us???
Let me know when you have an answer to THAT one!
2006-09-22 15:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by thart090 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So are you his girlfriend or not? Maybe it was an old picture... or maybe you just don't know that side of him. Ask him about it casually. See what he says.
2006-09-22 15:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋