We just moved from another country, 1/2 a day before the start of school. My 6 year old who is usually a social butterfly but is now having great difficulty adjusting and making friends. I thought of throwing a Halloween party for him and inviting his whole class. Most people I know tell me not to bother because it is quite likely that nobody will come, primarily because they don't know him and perhaps they just don't like him. I thought it was a great idea. Any suggestions?
2006-09-22 15:01:29 · 7 answers · asked by pavo2109 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
What are these people thinking???? He's 6! There would be no reason for the kids to NOT LIKE him...they are far too young for that. The party is a great idea, and you are a wonderful & caring Mom for worrying about it. Kids will love it & in turn love HIM if you throw a great little shindig with games, and simple prizes for everyone. They also love those yucky looking Brain Jello Molds & Dirt & Worms Cupcakes!!!! Have Fun!
Add to the invitations that you've just moved to town and would love to meet some new people & make new friends!
If my child got that invitation, I couldn't resist!
2006-09-22 15:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a six year old and if you invite kids from his class, there is a good chance they will come. The only downfall I could see that would cause the children to not come to the party is the fact that the parents don't know you. If you like, you could invite the parents to the party so that they feel comfortable. It depends on where you live though. In larger cities people are more fearful of crime and other wrong doings, but in smaller rural cities there generally is a little more trust because the crime rate is low.
Overall, kids are kids, and they all want to go to a party no matter who they are. I'd probably write something in the invitation about how you are trying to help your son make some new friends in this new place. People will be more sympathetic when they realize that your son is lonely and needs to make friends. Most people understand how hard it is to make friends in a new environment.
2006-09-22 22:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Serena 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They good thing, is that at that age...kids just like to party...no pun intended. Really, they aren't as hateful as your everyday third grader. I think it is a good idea...but it could backfire on ya'. Make sure you have a back up plan so he isn't crushed. I would also talk to his teacher when you send the invitations. Explain to her your intentions and get her on board. Ask if she'll make comments about it in class like, "We're looking forward to the party-who's going"....you know, as though it's the cool thing...just in case there is the little hateful kid in there.
Bless you sons little heart. Your a good mom! He'll make it...he's just adjusting to a pretty huge thing...a new Country.
2006-09-22 22:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by mauihillside 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easy way would be invite some classmates to go out to a movie and then go to a pizza place afterwards. They will have something in common to talk about afterwards, the movie. Plus his classmates will think he has a cool mom. I would pick an afternoon movie, so the kiddies can still go out trick or treating; and it will give the other parents some free time too.
2006-09-22 22:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Clipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a big city, you may not have as much luck with this as you would like, but I'm sure that at least a few kids will come.
If you live in a small town, chances are a lot of them will.
People in small towns (at least in the USA) are much more trusting, and perhaps curious, and certainly more friendly, than those in the cities.
I hope you have good luck with this!!
2006-09-22 22:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure invite his friends.write a letter to the parents that you are new in town and your reasons for doing this. if parents are unsure invite them along to come check it out for themselves. kids love parties no matter who is inviting. Halloween parties are great and i am sure lots of kids would love to come.
2006-09-26 11:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by me2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk with his teacher about taking in "goddies" or "treats" to the class rather than having a party that would be quite disappointing for your child?
2006-09-23 05:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋