Ok so there is this grl, and she lives in NM, and I live in ID. we met at EFY (Especially for Youth) I was told that she liked my friend and I, we liked her, then my friend and I foughtover her untill he found another grl. so thisgrl, and I have been txting for months, and I thoughtwe were like tight tight, but I just asked her who she is going to the homecomming dance with, and she said "Seth my bf" is it over, or do I still have a chance?
2006-09-22 14:57:00 · 15 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta realize she was single at EFY
and that We were basicly going out
2006-09-22 15:01:14 · update #1
When she told you this, what did you say? Did you express to her how you felt? If not, you better get on the phone as soon as possible and tell her. If she tells you that she is going to stay with Seth, respect her wishes because if you harass, push, or stalk her, you will turn her away from you. I know it hurts when you like someone and they are with someone else but if that person don't want to be with you, you can't force them to be. There are more fish in the sea and you will find the right one for you. Good luck. I hope everything works out.
2006-09-22 15:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just see you as a friend, maybe you should try making it more clear that you like her more than a friend. Just because she has a bf doesn't mean that your chances are shot to hell. You can still go out with her. Just be there for here, and don't pressure her into breaking up with her bf. Be happy for her, because she'll realize what a sweetie you are. If things don't work out, maybe you can go out. It also may be the distance apart. Maybe she'd like to be with someone close to her she can actually see. Just a thought. Things will work out if they were meant to. Good Luck.
2006-09-22 15:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by thats_hot_097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally over, dude. NM and ID are way too far away to be having a long distance deal, not to mention she's got a boyfriend. I would stop talking to her completely and consider it a valuable learning experience.
2006-09-22 15:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda messed up that she didn't tell you that she had a bf after all these months, but the best way to know if you still have a chance is to be open with her. Tell her what's on your mind and see if you both are on the same wavelengths. But in my opinion, it's over.
2006-09-22 15:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by lakola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if this girl only thinks of you as a friend but she txts you so must like you so I would say that you are still in with a chance. It is not worth losing a true friend over any girl.
2006-09-22 15:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by dbaywildgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not trying to be rude but hey a chance with what? the cell phone or the computer. seriously think about it do u really think she was not gonna have guy there come on think about it. again i am not trying to be rude or mean but you should never hoipe for something u cant even see.
sry about ur luck
tootles
2006-09-22 15:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by tajbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is hard....i think u took it more seriously then she did, just try 2 talk 2 other people closer 2 u
2006-09-22 15:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by @@@???? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, for now that she has a bf I think what you have is just pure friendship. She is not interested for more than being friends.
2006-09-22 15:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by mac.dsl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look its over for right now you just need to show her what a great guy you are.
2006-09-22 15:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, this guy was just playing around with you......There are plenty of girls out there!! Good Luck
2006-09-22 15:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋