Do you believe in ghosts? Can you help me with this one?

Question

My wife's mother always hated me. 15 years she did horrible things to me. She said horrible things to me. She said horrible things about our children. She was the only person who I have never really been able to understand. Her hatred of me was so deep and I cannot understand why she despised me so. The last time I saw her alive she was screaming at me. Then, she was dead, well, almost. 72 years old and a massive cerebral stroke left her in a coma, in hospital, for 8 months, during which time her husband died. Even though she despised me so I took her husband and her daughter almost daily to visit her in the hospital in my car, and brought home her dirty clothes to wash in my house. Slowly she faded away and died, died, but she is not dead. She is still here. She came back, from hell, and I can smell her. There are smells that move around my house, really, really disgusting smells. Smells of death. Things have been disappearing. I want to know - how can I get rid of her?

Answer 1

Hi Felix,
You need to get a Pastor or Priest to pray in your house also to pray for you. Sometimes also you can make your mind think these things. Now, I am not saying that this is what you are doing, but it can happen. I would like to know why did your mother in law hated you so much? What happened within the two of you? Was it your race? Did you mistreat your wife?
I do know that sometimes things disappear and then you look again in the same place and there they are. So I do believe you on that. Felix, your name sounds Spanish, if you are have you ever heard of Florida Water. Do you know where to get it where you live. (Botanica). Get some of that water and sprinkle it starting from the back of your house or apartment, all through the bedrooms and bathrooms, again, start from back to front, keep sprinkling the water till you get to the from door and out the front door. Take the bottle and do not bring it back inside the house, and throw it away. See if this helps you. Don't forget to pray while you are doing this. God will bless your home and cover it with his blood for protection.

Anything that used to belong to her burn it......

Answer 2

The hate that lingers is not your Mother-in-law, its something she would have approved of though from the way you make her sound. Its a demonic presence, and there are ways and methods to get these out of your house.

Did SHE LEAVE YOUR WIFE ANYTHING? Because the easiest way for them to enter your home is thru something "you bring in." So, if she left certain things that could be connected to this presence it could be why she was so hate-filled in the first place. Also, I would suggest removing one item at a time, until you feel "safe" in your own home, perhaps putting it in storage. Then when the "last" item was removed and you know which piece it was, destroy it or throw it away. I'm not sure destroying it is such a great idea, then leaving the spirit homeless to follow you back home.

Either way, good luck.

Answer 3

This happens a lot with people who die who are still strongly attached to the living somehow, whether it's by intense love or intense hatred. I don't know what your wife's relationship with her mother was like, so she may not want to get rid of the things your MIL owned. That would have been the first thing I would've suggested, getting rid of anything that ever belonged to your MIL, getting it out of your house. But if you can't do that, at least do a cleansing on it. Get some holy water, or mix some sea salt with some water and sprinkle any item in the house your MIL had contact with. For that matter sprinkle the rooms, sprinkle the doors, draw a pentagram or a Cross or whatever symbol means protection to you on the doors with salt water or Holy Water. If you can get ahold of some sage, that would be great. Mainly though is that you need to make it clear that she is NOT welcome...tell her she is dead and she is not welcome in your home, and that she needs to go to her home. Visualize shoving her through a door out of your house and then shutting and locking it tight behind her.

The key thing you need to remember though is that ghosts cannot hurt you. They can make you think they can, but they can't. They can make the atmosphere uncomfortable, but they can't do any real harm.

Answer 4

I do believe in ghosts. I lived in a house growing up, that my family and I really believe was spooked. Very strange things happened there that nobody could explain. Get this one, my mom, god rest her soul now, she was such an honest person, a real saint while she was alive. Well, I know she would never lie or make up stories. She told me, and this happened more than once, that during the night she woke up and saw a devilish type face coming out of her dresser mirror! I'm getting the chills just thinking about it. She said she just froze and couldn't move to even scream, she was so frightned. Another time, one of my brothers and I were the only ones home and he came running into the house and said to me -"I thought you said Mom wasn't home? I just saw her looking out her bedroom window?" My mom was NOT home and nobody else was either! I also experienced weird things in that house too. One Saturday morning, when I knew I was able to sleep in, my alarm clock went off (I didn't remember setting it, but I guess I could have) anyway, I got up to turn it off (it was about 5-6 feet away from my bed),and some kind of force pushed me backwards toward my bed until I just fell back into the bed. I'm sorry if I'm boring you with these stories, however, there were many more strange happenings that went on thru the years. Many years later, Mom passed away. The house got sold. One of my siblings who still lives in the area goes by the house from time to time and told me, that the new owners of the house have religious statues out in front of it now. I often wonder if they've experienced anything? The night my Mom died, while in my own home, just sitting around in the family room talking about mom, the lights on our ceiling fan twinkled! It must have been mom! I guess what you can try to do to get rid of your mother-in-law for good is put religious statues in and around your home or you may have to just move. Good Luck!

Answer 5

OK had a similar experience way more positive yet just as obvious that my person was arround, even followed me to Japan where I discussed it with a guru. He told me for a minimum of 15 minutes a day for at least 2 months or until 60 days after all evidence wa gone, to pray to god to make room for him in his heaven. It worked

Tell you one thing that amused him to do was when we played Yatze I would roll only one number the whole game. We found it very amusing to roll 6's for half an hour and you get to win but nobody will agree you did not cheat. Like you I could feel his presence.

Answer 6

You must have the Love of GOD in you.
Those are probably the Demons that influenced her while she was alive, still hanging around. GOD probably let her go into a coma to get her Saved, and she is probably in Heaven right now. GOD has Secrets.
If you are not Born-Again (and that would surprise me if you are not), you will have to get a Christian to help you---a Christian that has been Filled with the Spirit and has Learned some things about Spiritual WarFare. Otherwise, just Resist the Devil and he will Flee.

Answer 7

That is awful. If you are Catholic get a priest to come to your house to bless it. But better yet, find a person in your community that will believe you and will come to your home for a purifying ritual in your house. A new age shop usually knows a whole group in the community that deal in these things. You can tell this woman to go away. Just be stronger than her hate.

Answer 8

I would consult someone experienced in demonic deliverance, a christian pastor or priest. If you are a christian this is easy to do, use the name of Jesus. Or get another christian who knows what they are doing. Sounds like it is not actually her but a foul demon pretending to be her, which was probably the reason why she was so hateful in the first place. A demon inhabits a body but when the body dies it can often hang around the location where the person used to live.

Answer 9

Perhaps it's your lack of understanding "why" she hated you during her life is why she now "lingers" in death and these odours you may have "reversed engineered" in your mind to associate with this unresolved feeling (for lack of better words).

I'm no doctor or specialist of any kind; however, the mind is super-duper powerful and we DO know that scientists today are still discovering things about the power of the mind.

I have a gut feeling that this will boil down to forgiveness on both parts. You forgiving her for the things she said to you and your family. You forgiving yourself for perhaps ugly feelings you had towards her during these instances. Dead or alive - no one likes it when someone "strikes" someones self or loved family.

Maybe consider talking to a counsellor/pastor/doctor-referral or even bring your wife and together you can work at bringing this to closure on your end.

You certainly can't run from yourself and your unsettled feelings about this matter; could get expensive trying to move all the time.

If you do believe in God, pray to him as well for help and guidance. Maybe this is that "thing" that turns you towards God for help if you've never tried before.

Good luck.

Answer 10

That sounds like one you need to banish.Go from room to room,with olive oil,put the sign off the cross with the oil on each door and say,"You are not welcome here you must leave in Jesus Name!You must move on in Jesus Name".
That worked for me about 20 yrs ago in a house I had.Everything quieted down.Before that ,the (hard wired)smoke alarm would go off only when Ifell asleep,clock radios would go on full blast,and just an uncomfortable feeling,after that pretty peaceful.I had snipped the wires on the smoke alarm and got a battery one.Good Luck partner.