so i like someone, but hes too young, kindof... help.?

Question

so this guy i think is adorable, well, he kindof grew on me is in my french class adn has a huge crush on me. im 17 and a senior in highschool, i wont be 18 till im in college, so im not turning any time soon. well hes a freshman and will be turning 15 in 2 months. it just seems like there is a huge difference between 15 adn 16. and like, matruity wise too. nywasy, i got him a job adn when we work on teh same days i give him a ride home. i knwo he likes me but like, when we talk all i want to say is "yoru just too young. its almost illegal!" do you agree ? the only reason i knodnf wonder is cause like, thats like 2.5 years apart, my mom and my dad are 3 years appart, but i guess age differnece doesnt matter so much when you are past yoru 20's. dont know. any sudgestions?

Answer 1

if you really care you can make it last :) no joke go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

hey first i want to say how are you? listen I'm telling you a true story my man is 30 and iam 43 we first got toghter when i was 29 he was 16 so yes it sounds bad but i gave his mom respect do to i was a mom ok also let her know if it was to happen again i would still love himso as we go along i left him got back together when he was 21 ok things happen he left town ok kool we end up back together again and now been together october will make 3 years straight and we will be getting married april of 2007 so what im saying is age is only a number but you should not worry so much right now finish school and worry later you have a long way to go if like him date him but stay focus on your future dont let a relationship get in the way you have plenty time

Answer 3

I think it is not about having huge crush on you. He, as a freshman had to be depended on someone in school as a new environment. who can be better than a classmate,opposite sex,senior and ..... but remember those years.... were you thinking about the same things that you are thinking now? you can clearly tell how you have changed and your values and your attitude. You might want to find out about it just by talking to him for a while. see what he thinks. it happens alot that you just want to talk to your bf to set yourself free. if he doesnot understand your words you will regret it .imagine yourself with him if you were happy that way it would be a good idea then.

Answer 4

Hey, my mom's seven years older than my dad, go for it. Don't let age ruin a relationship. If you two have admiration for each other, maybe romance can be sparked.

Answer 5

Well my first serious g/f was 31 and I was 19!

Answer 6

Try being his friend, instead of his girlfriend. Who knows, you might like it. If a little romance happens later in the year.......?

Answer 7

i think it's perfectly fine.... my gf's a 17 year old junior and i'm a 14 year old freshman. her being my gf might bias my opinion... but anyways, if you like him go for it. hey, wasn't there a big difference between elvis and his wife?

Answer 8

You're to young yourself not just him... there's a build in spell checker here dear

Answer 9

im having the same problem.i asked alot of people and they said that she was to young for me but i dont know.

Answer 10

go for it doesnt matter i think that staying within two years is safe

Answer 11

if you like him you should go for it and if you are to scared of what people or your friends think of you then if they are your freinds they won't care who you're going with