just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy.
2006-09-22 14:37:48 · 5 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The type of attraction you are feeling for this girl is very strong, and I would definitely go with it. Your problem is communication. My guy is a total baseball fiend. I have learned so much the last few years. Baseball is on ALL THE TIME. I don't care, it is what he most enjoys and I try to share this with him. On the other hand, he's totally occupied if I have to do laundry, kids, dishes, etc....Let the girl teach you about her interests. These are key to the character in her that you are attracted to. So, let her talk, (most women can handle this part), and you just listen for now. Eventually you can clue her in on all of your the attributes of yourself that you want to share with her.
2006-09-22 14:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to persue someone you have nothing in common with? Usually if the sparks dont fly at first they wont. I'm sure you are young and life is too short to live it unhappy, unmatched, and bored. Go for someone you both have a genuine intrest in each other. You can not force LOVE.
2006-09-22 21:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dandylion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to reevaluate why you like her. if you have nothing in common, why dont you try doing somehting she likes? dont try to go straight for hte position of bf. why dotn you date or soemhing? if a kid that i had only talked with a few times asked me out, id be kindfo wierded out...
2006-09-22 21:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get an advice from a florist or librarian. Good luck!
2006-09-22 21:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just a crush... Yeah, just a crush... Crush, dude...
2006-09-22 21:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋