Is He cheating one me?

Question

If your boy friend stops wanting to come over and hang out when he used to ask me all the time, cuts a lot of our calls short, And everytime i try to call him he says hold on ill call you right back and talks to me like another buddy and just hangs up with out saying i love you. Do you think he's cheating on me? Please be gentle in your anwsers im only 16. But i guess this is what i get for dateing a 18 year old right? Guess my heart got so caught up in the moment i never stop to think about what i was doing, or what could of happend. :(

- Kayla -

Answer 1

probably. maybe he is scared of his feelings. give him space.

Answer 2

Its not going to be all bad if you dump him right? Break up with him before he breaks up with you. I know it would hurt a lot and maybe difficult too, but atleast you get to kepp your pride. THe right boy is just around the corner. There is someone out there meant for you, just dont invest too much of yourself in a relationship. Keep some for yourself alright:) Its going to take a lot of relationships, until you meet the right guy. Just hang in there. Take all this with a grain of salt and try to learn and be a better person for it. I think you are pretty for an 18 year old guy to be asking you out. So it wont be long till someone cool will ask you out again:)

Answer 3

If you have to ask this question you obviously think he is! Just ask your self a few questions:

1. Does he seem like the kinda that would cheat?

2. His he maybe just bussy

3. Are you just jumping to conclusions

Because i know that the second girls arnt getting attention all of a sudden it OMG hes cheating on me step back and look at the big picture if it still seems like hes cheating on you and you just cant justify any other reasons for his behavior then break up with him or start getting ready for him to dump you.

Guys are retarded huh? lol
I hope it all goes well for you Good Luck!! = )

Answer 4

Ok I don't mean to sound rude but I went through that age. I have friends that also went out with younger females because they enjoyed having sexual intercourse with virgins. I'm not sure what your status is but many take advantage and date for this reason. Do have relationships with a virgin. Do this, don't talk to him, don't act like you're worrying about him, don't look sad in front of him, be happy!! Let him see this. Right now he thinks he has control of you, that you're too sensitive and that he can run you over because he knows he can. When you begin to act normal and as if you are not worrying about him, he will begin to question and become worried because he will lose his authority. Good luck, I'm not saying he's cheating on you, but I do have friends that have been through this situation.

Answer 5

WELL at 16 we all think we are adults BUT were not. we have a lot of growing up to do yet & a lot of things to experiance.
if your b/f is 18 i know its only 2 years differance BUT he is older so he can do a lot of things you cant do. also maybe his mates are calling him for having a g/f of 16. ( i dont think your mates would think you were cool if you had a b/f of 13 or 14. ) he can go to pubs - clubs - stay out all night - or do anything he wants, BUT your too young, i think you should be the one to end it. looking at all the facts. i know its hard but in the long run its the best thing to do, find someone your own age group. he may not be cheating on you BUT he may think your too young.

Answer 6

It really doesn't matter if he's cheating does it? He's withdrawing from you. It's not his age that is the problem it's just that the two of you don't match up as well as you thought when you started. Sorry for the pain you must feel. If you'd like my advice, I'd say to go slowly in relationships as this sort of thing often happens.

Answer 7

Dear young child, be done with him. Some men get what they want then move on. You are only 16 with many more challenges in life to conquer. Your young and at the age to be having friends and going to the movies, and participating in school activities. You don't need him. Just tell yourself that it and move on. Hopr this helped!

Answer 8

Girl, he may or may not be cheating. He HAS moved on, however. It doesn't sound like he has the same feelings for you, anymore. He probably doesn't know how to tell you. The best thing you can do is move on and break it off with him. I know it's hard, but trust me, it's better than getting dumped, which sounds like what is coming...

Answer 9

its possible, but guys are just weird. esp. at that age, they dont want their friends to know they have a heart, like they're whipped or something. so around certain people, they wont say i love you or be their usual selves. especially if you're younger than him, his friends prolly already pick on him that your only 16 and got him on a leash (like i said, they're just weird).

but either way, you're only 16, and you have every right to be picky about the guy you are with. if you dont like how he treats you, tell him and give him the chance to fix it. if he doesnt, drop him. you need to be picky and find the right guy out there, and if he isnt it, dont waste your time move on!!

good luck sweetie!! :)

Answer 10

I wouldn't say he was cheating on you...it looks like he's trying to gently break things off w/ you. He doesn't want to come right out and in one painful conversation break your heart. Instead, he's opting to drag things on and on and drive you completely out of your mind. I'd ask him what's up but be ready for his answer. Good luck Kayla.

Answer 11

take your gut feelings and go with it,,,he mite not necessary be cheating but he doesn't sound interested anymore...same thing happened to me and it wasn't just me being paranoid he had fallen out of love with me after many times of me asking why he seemed distant he finally told the truth.....i hurts i know but don't push him too much for answers as you could push him away even more,,,just leave him alone for a week also let him be the one to contact you,,mean while enjoy yourself hang with the girls he cant leave you hanging on forever but if you leave him alone for a while that may help him decided what you mean to him