what is your favorite method to filter grief?

Answer 1

Cheesecloth, although I've found HEPA filters come highly recommended however, they need to be changed regularly.

Answer 2

Don't filter it, just let it go. It is part of life. If the pain seems so unbearable then you may think about the flip side of grief the joy that you gained from the situation and how grateful you are that you had the experience. Thinking differently can change how you feel. Grief is part of being human and it can be an experience to go deeper into feelings. You may choose to read things that have been written about grief, and that may help, but chances are you may gain the most by just being with the grief and let it guide you.

Answer 3

Grief is a process that takes time. Talking and talking to a caring individual can help. Grief counseling and grief groups can help. I focused also on other issues, other peoples needs at times just to get my mind off my own grief, even for an hour. Time does help alot. Depending on how great the loss, it may not go away 100% but bearing it can get easier. I wish you help with your pain.

Answer 4

How can I know my mind?
An alert mind is not a problem; an unaware mind is. The mind projects the future to be fulfilling but misses the beauty of the present. If you are rich, you want to be richer; if you are strong, you want to be stronger; if you are beautiful, you want to be more beautiful. Such a mind does not make you live life but leave life.

Such a mind creates false prayers. You make a ritual out of prayer and pretend to pray. Such prayer becomes an empty gesture.

Why am I so greedy?
There is a visible world and there is an invisible world. There is a visible self and an invisible self. The visible world is a world of diversity and the invisible world is a world of oneness.

If we live on the periphery we will feel incomplete but completeness is one’s nature. This incompleteness wants us to be a complete person. But the only track it knows is greed, wanting more. The enlightened masters give us not a dogma but a device to reach this state of completeness.

We should stop fooling around with life. Just thinking to be happy is not enough; just thinking to be wise is not enough. It is a luxury to think but it is wisdom to live. Ask yourself: Are you concerned with reality or fantasy?

There are two ways to know reality. If you want to know objective reality, then science is the way out. If you want to know subjective reality, turn to spirituality.

Why does one worry in life ?
Worry has become a habit for many. An inner energy that is not creative goes around in circles of worry. A creative person is one who, when he encounters a problem, is focused on the solution and is not a victim to the problem. Convert the problem into a springboard for possibilities.

A doctor does not cure illness but allows the healing process within to surface by giving it the right condition. So, too, the true healer exists within you. But you have to create the right condition. By looking at the mountain you can’t climb the mountain, you should will yourself to climb the mountain. Optimise this will for you to be above worry.

What should one do to be successful in life?
Ultimately what you need is self-confidence, mental toughness, commitment to excel and the ability to use the power of imagination.

What do you mean by self-confidence?
There are three pillars of self-confidence: Feeling good, taking responsibility and developing skills. There are both healthy ways and unhealthy ways of feeling good. You should develop the discipline to feel good in a healthy way. The quality of one’s life is the quality of one’s consistent feeling. There are techniques that are taught how to hold and maintain consistent feelings of empowerment within you.

How does one acquire clarity?
Clarity is acquired not by knowledge but by knowing. It is not a belief system; it is intelligence operating in the domain of freedom. The true meaning of renunciation is not renouncing the world but renouncing bondage. When bondage is renounced there is freedom, the most important thing. In freedom lies intelligence. It is not just discipline but true freedom. Freedom is not something devoid of order; it is a flowering of order

Answer 5

when I left my wife . I went to alabama to be a hermit for a year, cryed. paced back and forth, my mind just was nt right, I felt all bottled up with emotions, I HAD to let go, so in my minds eye I visuilized my bad emotions comeing out of me like a volcano arupting and saw it all. visuilized it, all ,going our from me into the darkness out there, and i KNEW that god would take it, all away from me, it released a lot of stress and emotions, I did that a few times, it seemed to help me., let go and let god handle it, he will take it .if you will give it, of course it may take a while. are a day, no one knows, but I wish you well, I will pray for peace, to be with you,but do cry, talk with friends. go to church. excersize. take a b vitimin complex. b vits keep your t cells healthy as stress kills b vitimins,so replace them in your blood stream, and vit c also.sunshine is good for you,make yourself laugh.if it is some one person you need to forgive, please forgive them,

Answer 6

I like to sit for a spell with my Old GrandDad and my two friends Jim and Jack.

Answer 7

it varies, but usually, denial, alcohol, drugs, or internalizing it until it explodes into a 3 state murderous rampage or total emotional letdown.

Answer 8

i've never feel grief but if i did it would be with beer

Answer 9

crying

Answer 10

cut myself