so im 16 and i like this guy at my school and i see him look at me and smile alot and hes always around me and all that stuff and im too shy to go up to guys and say hi and all that stuff any easy ways to show him you like him as well other than stalking him? lmao can u please tell me?? and if any guys can tell me if he likes me? please! he smiles at me all the time and everywhere i go hes like right next to me or around me and all that!
2006-09-22 12:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok......if what you're reporting is accurate, and he is smiling all the time at you, and he shows up right next to you, it's not like someone's going to put up a billboard that announces to him, "I like you"...you're going to have to make an effort to break out of that coccoon of silence, or you'll miss your opportunity. A guy wants to know if a girl likes him, and you're wise not to turn stalker. Though, if you can't find the courage to talk to him, I wonder what the purpose is of stalking him would be? Lol. To stare at him? So practice in a mirror, saying something simple like, "hi, how's it going?" or, if you have a class in common - say something like "what do you think about that teacher?" or, about a project "have you given any thought to that project?" Guys are scared/nervous too, and a simple line like that will get the conversation moving. Don't try to plan out your whole life in your head, while you are staring and god forbid, stalking. lol Just think of it as making a new friend, not snagging a boyfriend. that can develop over time if you find that you have anything in common, other than smiles and eyes that seem to find each other in a hallway. Don't sell yourself short. You don't need anyone else to tell you if he likes you. If he talks to you after you break the ice, then he respects you enough to carry on a conversation. It's then up to you, to be natural, and be yourself, and share with him the person that you are, not the person you think he wants you to be. Phony people are so boring. If he smiles at you in the hall, that means he's identifying with you, so talk to the man, about anything! Keep it light, and casual. Good luck!
2006-09-22 12:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is SO crushing on you, it's not even funny.
LISTEN to me, the longer you let it go, the less relevent his attraction to you will become.
boys are ficle, so you gotta act quick before the next distraction arrives.
4 years from now, when your 20, and you don't go to this school, and everyone you know is gone, no one will care that you walked up to the guy you liked, and said "hey"
do it. i know he'll dig it
2006-09-22 12:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Micheal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he likes you, but just don't have the courage to speak up, so you up to him and say hi, start with friends and take it from there.
2006-09-22 12:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by minoru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love girls that cut. And those who don't eat. Start there, and then start talking to him.
2006-09-22 12:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by tomservo552 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and talk to him and start a conversation, then say hi anytime you see him, then it will go from there.
2006-09-22 12:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi to him. and take it from there.
2006-09-22 12:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy Wine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋