My brother's best friend and I have been "seeing each other" (or whatever you want to call it) for a few weeks now. It just kind of happened. I had been pushing my feelings for him out of my head for quite some time now. Nobody knows about us yet. We don't want to say anything too prematurely because we know it's going to be a big deal. He's like part of the family already. Everybody loves him and he's always been like a brother to me. He is an amazing guy.
Of course, right around the same time he and I first kissed, I had just started hanging out with this other guy who is (I hate to use this word, but..) perfect. I know nobody is, but he is everything I've been looking for. We've done our fair share of flirting, but nothing beyond that thus far. I've tried backing off and just keeping things as friends because I don't want to ruin things with the other guy. But everytime I see him, it's the worst temptation in the world!
I have no idea what to do. Please help.
2006-09-22 12:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by sdsumunchkin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who do u like better?
2006-09-22 12:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion? It sounds to me like you need to not be with either of them and figure out what it is you really want in life and in a relationship. There is also the question of your age. If you are still a teenager then just date the both of them but be upfront with both of them. If you are an adult, well you know already what kind of trouble you can get into when you weave a web.
2006-09-22 19:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by L M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and breathe. Do you love the guy your secretly seeing? If your feelings for him are in doubt at all, then maybe this other guy might be the one.. How old are you anyways?If your under 18 then stop seeing both of them and wait till your older.
2006-09-22 19:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy Wine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know what to do, you're just afraid.
If you're just hopping back and forth between them then eventually they'll both get fed up and move on. My advice is to get to know them both much better as _friends_. And if you still have feelings for one of them then things will progress.
If you can't be public about your relationship with someone then you're not "together", you're just fooling around.
2006-09-22 19:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tomis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You're just dating. You'll find as you get older, you will date many more people and explore many new things. You have no obligations to either of these guys. If you do want a relationship with one of them, just follow your heart and engage in one. Trust me, your heart won't lie. But, if I were you, I would just have fun and not worry about it.
2006-09-22 19:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dtae ur brothers friend dump the other one trust me i had the same problem and i am still with my brothers friend
2006-09-22 19:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋