We've been dating for only 3 weeks...
2006-09-22 11:19:18 · 33 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to learn how to have fun with you. Also doing things he likes. He should respect you on what you do and you are not married to this person becuase you only been with him for 3 weeks. This is who you are and if he really wants to be with you he should understand your needs.
2006-09-22 11:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by drunken monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not stop clubbing three weeks is not nearly enough time to change your way of living for someone if you really like him though you could ask him to go with you maybe he wouldn't mind going or if he doesn't he should trust you but with it only being three weeks you both are just getting to know each other and its hard to ask him to do that right now on the other hand if going clubbing is gonna get you into trouble maybe you don't need a steady boyfriend.
2006-09-22 11:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by dynamitedon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only at 3 weeks? No way this should even be a consideration yet. Schedule him for one evening and your club buddies for the next.
If you and your new dating partner decide to get serious, then you should ask him if he's okay with you continuing to go to clubs on the understanding that you are just going with your friends and are not trying to hit on anybody or be picked up by anybody. Be prepared for him to say no, 'cause it's a rare man who will be that confident and trusting right off the bat. And go ahead and cut it back for a while as your gesture of good faith. As long as you continue to demonstrate that you're being good and faithful and considerate of his feelings, you should be able to bring up the point for re-negotiation every few months or so.
2006-09-22 11:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...just find ways of getting out to da club..
I'm married and so is my friend...our guys hate to club and we always love to go...so we stopped going for like 2 years or more...it was the longest time ever. N-e how now we are back in clubbing not every weekend at least 4 days a month. they hate it...we snick out and then when we return we will tell them. The reason not before hand...they spoil the mood. As long as ur faithful...and dancing and having fun. I know it may be wrong to hide tis behind their backs...but we confuss later. u'll under stand when ur married 5 years... good luck
We've tryied to have them come along....NEVER WORKED!!
2006-09-22 11:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you suggest to him that the two of you go together...maybe it's not that he doesn't like clubbing but that he's never really taken the time to enjoy it while he's there...so since the two of you are dating why don't you encourage him to go with you one night and maybe he might change his mind...it might just be the key of him wanting to go with you more often....but then again if you're a club freak and constantly want to go then maybe you should calm down a little....clubbin may be fun but always going every weekend is a little bit too much to me....well good luck!
2006-09-22 11:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask again when you have an actual relationship...3 weeks, continue to go to the club. He may not even be around in another three weeks.
2006-09-22 11:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't stop being you. If clubbing is something you like to do then do it. If he doesn't like you doing it then he shouldn't have been interested in you and asked you out. Right? Tell him that you are going clubbing and if he doesn't like it, then you two don't need to be together. Please, I ask of you, don't change yourself for no one!
2006-09-22 11:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Novotny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Worship your man like a God and obey his commands! Your clubbing days are over. Now get into the kitchen and do the washing up....
2006-09-22 11:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by warden14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your doing at the club. He just needs to trust you. You both don't need to club. People can still ove one another and have different hobbies.
2006-09-22 11:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit clubbing. Quit eating cheddar cheese, since he only likes Swiss. Quit wearing your favorite shirt, since he doesn't like it. Quit hanging out with your best friends, since he doesn't like them.
Or, you can be a grown up and behave in a way that pleases YOU.
2006-09-22 11:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋