We have been through an issue before where I caught an inappropriate voice mail on their phone. We are suppose to be pass this but i have a feeling that something else is going on. Everytime I bring up the issue about their phone they always say that we should both be allowed our own space (privacy). I would like to believe them but I do not feel completely certain. What can i do????
2006-09-22 11:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by VICk R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
them=her=girlfriend of 3 yrs.
2006-09-22 11:19:23 · update #1
Trust your instincts. If you feel like something is not "quite right" then chances are, it's not. Considering that there is a history of something, you are justified in checking the voicemail - your concerns are not completely unfounded. Good luck.
2006-09-22 11:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - you are spouses and shouldn't hide anything. If there is trust - there shouldn't be an issue with you checking voicemail/email, etc. Yes, you both still need to have your privacy, but unless the partner has something to hide....well, they aren't going to want you to look/hear anything.
You need to find out.
2006-09-22 18:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they aren't guilty of anything, why should they care? When you are married to someone, there shouldn't be any secrets! Privacy? LOL
2006-09-22 18:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a relationship is hard if you have no trust. Either learn to live with his wishes or do it anyways and find out what you have known all along.
2006-09-22 18:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust her you should both go to counscelling and get things figured out.
2006-09-22 18:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think there is something going on there usually is fallow your instincts.if there is nothing to hide then it wouldn't be hidden.
2006-09-22 20:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must trust her, but then again she shouldn't have any secrets from you.
2006-09-22 18:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a woman
2006-09-22 18:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check their phone. if they arent guilty of anything then there is no harm done.
2006-09-22 18:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a hutch that something is up ~ it is ! Be on the sly !
2006-09-22 18:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋