We celebrated one year of dating on September 05, 2006 and he is the first boyfriend I have ever had. However, one day, he was using my laptop and he stepped out of the room. SInce he was still signed on to AOL, I checked his email and found tons of emails of girl in his mailbox. One of them he had sent to this girl from Texas wose s/n was fairy064 saying that she should come to New York and then they would kiss afterwards. I got really mad and I told him that it was over. However, he gave me a b/s story like always, saying that it was all to help his friends get this girl. I took him back but I doubted him. A few months later, I found lots of profiles of him on dating sites like plentyoffish.com, and he told me he did that to get back at me for calling him a cheater. I found strange voicemails and texts on his phone and pictures of him kissing another girl and he told me he was drunk that day and she took advantage and did that. He lies to me all the time. He told me he would change.
2006-09-22 11:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's always going to say he can change. You are his backup. Get rid of him!!
2006-09-22 11:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player and you know it. You are also stupid for believing him over and over again.
First, if I want to help a friend, I would give him advice, not pretend to be him. I mean, what kinda chicken cant even hold up a good chat??
You foudn profile sof him in dating sites and he told you another BS story and you felt for it. If I love someone there shouldnt be a need to get back at them.
You found strange voice mails and texts in his phone and even a picture of him kissing another girl.... You dont have any self esteem, do you? He tells you he was drunk and it wasnt his fault... But he was sober enough to take the picture and keep it in his phone...
You need to wise up
2006-09-22 18:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave. Yes it is easier said then done especially after a year, but come on now quit fooling yourself im sure you can find someone who will treat you much better. One who lies so much cant even tell the truth from a lie himself.
2006-09-22 18:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by KG2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!!! OMG!!! You have seen all the red flags, girl...dump him....he is just using your checking his AOL to justify the other stuff...you can do better....who knows what else has been going on behind your back...
2006-09-22 18:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't not stay with him. He is checking out more people, that means, honestly he is really ready to look around and cheat...get him out of your life you can do better.
Rich
Good luck and don't believe him
2006-09-22 18:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his lieing azz, you don't deserve the headache and heartache I'm pretty sure you can get better
2006-09-22 18:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by latinoheat131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! Lies aren't worth it. Liars always lie. They don't stop, trust me.
2006-09-22 18:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious the guy is a DOG and why would you put yourself through that is beyond me.
KICK HIM TO THE CURB AND FIND A REAL GUY.
2006-09-22 18:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave because he might, not cange and then he can cause you a lot of trouble and then he will start hitting you, he is lieing to you.
2006-09-22 18:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by ILOVEYOU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, if you don't have trust you don't have a relationship. Good Luck
2006-09-22 18:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by stormykathrynserenity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋