It seems I can never hold on to what I care about most. My boyfriend I loved so much doesn't want to be together anymore and a job I really really wanted didn't hire me. I make friends easily but the people I really want to be friends with don't want to have anything to do with me. What is going on.
2006-09-22 11:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop wanting and take what you need.
2006-09-22 11:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do the same thing i do. you need to sit down and ake a list of all the negitive and the positive. and yyou need to explain why each oucome happened. and if you dont know, then just say oh well. there will be plenty of other guys, and plent of other jobs. you just hit a bad streak . its seems rough. but a person is no judged by the way they handle good situations but by how they handle the bad ones. be strong and brush your shoulders off and get back up, and ove on, life is too short to be worrying about one job, or one boy. do you really thinkk in ten years youll see that boy again, or that job . no your life moves on and so should you. there is othing wrong with you.
2006-09-22 18:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by ~your guardian angel~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing may be wrong with you -people are all different in who they like or don't like and that is just the way it is,however, are you the clingy type-do you feel your friend/s must have time only for you, etc. That is a sure-fire turn off.
Take time to write down a two--column list-1 of your good points (not just looks but personality)-the other, what you might not like about yourself i.e. -too quiet, too gabby)-try and see yourself as others might see you and take it from there. we can all change if we really want to. marlyne B
2006-09-22 18:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by marlynembrindle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being over anxious in the job department. In interviews are you acting or seeming nervous or over excited and agreeing with everything the employer says. Are you trying way to hard to make everyone else happy including your boyfriend and over extending yourself. You need to make yourself happy before you can be happy with your partner, friends and work. Good Luck. Try thinking about yourself for a change and not what everybody else is thinking and wanting.
2006-09-22 18:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by natmys333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you depressed? Are you more distant to them than you think? Also, is there something going on at home that would embarrass and worry them to where they wouldn't want to hang around....
I'm not sure. I'm sorry for you and hope things start to go better soon.
2006-09-22 18:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be these people you want to be friends with recognize a potential in you and want to manipulate you. Denial of fellowship is one way. I don't know you so I don't know your personality. Best I could do on short notice.
2006-09-22 18:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hhhhhmmmm think maybe u have a confindence prob or u are around the wrong people move on that's all u can do.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 18:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a self-fullfilling prophecy of failure. And it sounds like you may be acting desperate. Try being more confident in yourself and your actions and decisions...it worked for me!
2006-09-22 18:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it prob just a bad patch.
stop trying too hard and let people see you for who you are.
The right job and man will come along soon.
chin up
2006-09-22 18:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by bj28_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to hard, be yourself. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-09-22 18:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋