you had to teach him stuff and "train him like a puppy"?
2006-09-22 10:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course... I've dated anywhere from 8 years younger to just months younger. The last long term relationship I had was with a man who is six years my junior (I was 31 when I met him... he was 25... we're now 34 and 28 respectively.)
Unfortunately, most men will need to be trained regardless of age. Unfortunately a lot of mothers don't teach their sons to be somebody else's husband or partner. They still treat them like their baby when they're in their 20's, 30's & 40's.
There is a certain adjustment period with any relationship and you've got to realize that not everybody is going to be to your liking. Most everybody needs some urging as to what pleases you. The majority of the human race are not mind readers.
The question is: Are you willing to take the time to learn about the other person and teach them about you? If after a month or two, it seems like he's still not getting it... move on.
I asked a similar question regarding whether people think it's okay to date a much younger man when you're a woman. One of my replies was "life and love are timeless". I kind of tend to agree with that. Sometimes it's not about age... usually it isn't. It's about similar interests.
Good luck on the training though! Hopefully you either get him housebroken soon or you know you can always send him off to the pound! lol!
2006-09-22 11:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer see something incorrect with it. I dated a sixteen twelve months previous while i grew to become into 14 (years in the past!) and im now with a guy 7 years my senior and our dating is appropriate. Get to be responsive to her a splash first - ask her if she would perchance want to pass out sometime; to the movies, for some nutrition etc. Please stay risk-free and a minimum of try waiting for intercourse till she is unquestionably over the age consent rules and you're the two waiting to start that degree of your dating. sturdy success :)
2016-10-01 06:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i definatly have liked guys that are 2 years younger that me... some of my friends think that its kinda wrong and i should go for guys that are my age (16-17) instead of freshman (13-14)...
plus i don't really see what the big deal is, i mean its not that uncommon to see a junior dating a freshman.
it doesn't really matter in high school.
2006-09-22 10:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
younger is better 1st they are more active and always want it 2nd u teach them what u like...........u get the best of both worlds with a younger man. I have never date anyone the same age as me or older he has always been youger than me,........
2006-09-22 10:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think its kinda wrong either way for people to do that(older men or older women) i could never see myself dating a younger guy they're so immature and giggly it would get old really quick but hey whatever floats your boat though you'll probably be tossing him out on his *** when he keeps giggling 'booby' or something else retarded like that at ya ( i dont think this ends till they're like 25)
2006-09-22 11:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and depending on the guy it can either be fun and romantic or boring and tedious. For me it was very fun and we had a great thing going.
2006-09-22 12:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My BF is 10 years younger then I and he teaches me something new everyday..... :)
2006-09-22 10:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did and no i didn't have to train him like a puppy....That's ridiculous.
2006-09-22 10:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but it gets old real quick!!! Sometimes you don't want to be the teacher, and be the student for a change!
2006-09-22 10:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly girls like elder guys but love has no age so beat the wall of age..
thats wht i think girls
2006-09-25 23:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by styleguru_1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋