I caught my now ex-boyfriend cheating on me...he put out an ad on personal websites and met this woman. He says he didn't cheat cuz he didn't sleep w/her and all they went was to dinner and a dog walk.
I say BS!!! He went out looking for someone else w/o my knowledge and went on a date.
2006-09-22 10:49:46 · 29 answers · asked by Vanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should mention that he is my ex-boyfriend now (2wks) because I caught him w/this woman.
2006-09-22 10:54:15 · update #1
When you go out and date other people when you are in a relationship . I'm clear with you he is BS!!!
2006-09-22 10:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is cyber cheating. The newest way of cheating. Cheating is being in a committed relationship and you or him willing participate in another relationship without the partner or spouse knowing or meeting of this new relationship. Did he ever include you when going on dog walks or anything else with this other woman? Of course not, for whatever reason, he choose to get into this situation on his own. Now that he and you are no longer together, he is trying to justify and say that he didn't cheat. I personally wouldn't be talking to him any more because all that is going to do is get you hurt emotionally. Wish him a nice life and tell him you hope he gets everything he deserves. Remember once a cheat always a cheat. God bless you.
2006-09-22 17:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that constitutes as cheating. A males definition of cheating is having sex with someone. A woman's definition is spending time with another female in the right environment with anyone other than herself.
I wouldn't like to catch my mate on a hot dog lunch or a filet mignon dinner, I would have to put on my monkey suit and show out.
2006-09-22 17:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's still cheating because he went out with another woman behind your back. If he was happy in the relationship with you, he would have never put an ad on the website and would have never gone out with a woman. You're right by calling it BS, dump him!
2006-09-22 17:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think the moment your guy looks at another girl, hes already cheated with his eyes. that means hes got it on his mind. once he goes somewhere with her alon. even if its"inoceant" . its still going behind your back, which means he thinks your an idiot. and he defiantly doesnt respect you. he should definatly stay your ex. im sure that fool missed out on something great. his loss and someone elses gain. forget about him. its not because you werent good enough. if a couple is not compatable. sometimes peolpe subconciously start looking for a better match. but most people dont actually post it on the internet. thats would be what we would call a dumb ***.
2006-09-22 17:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by ~your guardian angel~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are with someone you should always be honest with them. If you want to go out with other people then you should break it off with that person and tell them.
Cheating is going out on any type of date. If it's dinner, drinks or even a dog walk this is wrong.
2006-09-22 17:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fotios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's cheating. If he was in a relationship, and went out with another woman. Kick him to the curb.
2006-09-22 18:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going on a date is cheating in my eyes.
2006-09-22 17:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Zoey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is cheating.
In my book - anything that involves another woman trying to get into your man's pants is cheating.
Doesn't matter if it's "Just talking" or "just dog walking". She's trying to get into your man's pants!
2006-09-22 17:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating to me is anything that you wouldn't want your partner to know or anything that you wouldn't want done to you. Ask him what he thought if the shoe was on the other foot and you did this, bet he consider it cheating.
2006-09-22 17:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋