Should I call her?

Question

I just got this girls number that I really like. But I don't now if I should call her yet. I don't wanna seem desprate but i don't wanna seem like I don't care either. Should I call her?

Answer 1

Life is short, go ahead and take the risk, that's all life is, just one risk after another. Just call her up and have a very casual conversation with her. Try to think of something that you can just call up and say, "hey, I was wondering ....????" Just something that you guys have talked about before. Good luck!!

Answer 2

If you haven't called her by now, either she'll be "over it", or she'll still want to see you, but since it's Friday you most likely won't see her until Sunday or next week. If you woulda gotten off your ***, stopped worrying about "the game" and what other people think about you, you probably would have a date tonight...So get on it boy!! No hesitation necessary. Girls like persistence and to feel desired. You not calling shows some lack of interest...good luck.

Answer 3

Yeah that is quite a dilemma. Calling her right away could work against you as easily as for you, & so could waiting to call her.

I would suggest that you would do better to stop trying to manipulate the situation so that everything works out the way you want it to.

Unless she was specific about when you should call then you will probably be better off just giving her a call when you are ready. Be more concerned about what you are going to say to her when you finally do call her.

Answer 4

Ah, the thing about phone calls.

Here's one of my favorite oldies:

I listen for your foot steps
Coming up the drive
I listen for you foot steps
But they don't arrive
Waiting for you knock, dear
on my old front door
I don't hear it
Does it mean you don't love me anymore?

I hear the clock a ticking
on the mantel shelf
See the hands a moving
But I'm by myself
I wonder where you are tonight
And why I'm by myself
I don't see you
Does it mean you don't love me anymore?

Don't pass me by
don't make me cry
don't make me blue
'Cause you know darling I love only you
You'll never know, it hurts me so
How I hate to see you go
Don't pass my by
Don't make me cry
Don't make me blue

I'm sorry that I doubted you
I was so unfair
You were in a car crash
And you lost your hair
You said that you would be late
About and hour or two
I said that's all right
I'm waiting here just waiting to hear from you



I feel the same about waiting for a call. Yeah, just do it and get it over with. If she likes you, it'll go well.

Answer 5

Trust me, if she liked your enough to give you the digits, why are you making her wait for the first phone call? When you do decide to call her, you can always preface by asking "are you busy", and depending on the answer, go from there. Men are usually clueless as to what women want, they seem to have a hard time reading women, you can make the phone call without seeming desparate.

Answer 6

It might seem as being desperate but if she didn't want you to call her she would not have given you her number. She is probably waiting for you by the phone to call her. If you really like her take a chance. GOODLUCK

Answer 7

Next day is fine, don't string out the call and you'll be fine. Then either arrange to call again or do something, or wait for her call.

No need to wait longer than a day.

Answer 8

What u do is wait atleast 3 days. The longest i would say is about 1 week. So call her.

Answer 9

She didn't give it to ya to sit around and stare at it....take a chance later this evening and call. What's the worst that could happen? She might just be waiting on ya.

Answer 10

yeah but only if u want to see her again, and if u dio call her two days after recieving the number