2006-09-22 10:38:09 · 52 answers · asked by mmaskovic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you can, yes. The reason I say this is because I feel that sometimes you can totally love someone so much that you build the relationship up for failure, not sure if I'm making myself clear...lol.... but for example everyone dreams that there is just that 1 person that's perfect for you and they are your soul mate and you are meant to be with them forever, but in reality when you have that illusion don't you set it up to be the best thing ever? And to be honest nothing is that perfect. I believe there is someone out there that you can have more of a spiritual connection too but it may not be possible to stay with them all your life and then you have somewhat of a safe love and it's not really that you love that person any less than the first one it's just a different kind of love. Well I hope I haven't completely confused you with this answer. Good luck!
2006-09-22 10:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You can care for one and love the other, but you can not love two people. Not the kind of love that is in a relationship. If you think you do then baby you are confused and something isn't love. The reason I say it can not be love is the first person you are with and find out you love you try to make something of it and you would never be involved with a second to even know if you love that person or not. Ya Dig!!
2006-09-22 10:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to think so but I've realized something just recently. Love is a 2 way feeling. To be in love you must be loved. Therefore if you love 2 people at the same time then they must both love you. And somehow i can't believe any women out there would love a guy who told her he loved someone else!
2006-09-22 10:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by jbenny1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think that's possible. And, I think today in society, we throw around the word "love" so freely. First of all, I don't think it would be fair to either woman for you to say that you love them or are devoted to them, when you're not. It sounds to me like you're unsure of what to do, and you need to decide. Playing with people's emotions is a very tricky thing and many people come out very hurt or mentally scarred because of a bad experience. When you love someone, you don't want to hurt them. And, although we can't help the way things take their courses of actions sometimes, we can prevent situations, like these, where many parties are suseptible of getting hurt. Be real with yourself. Be real with these women. Once you have your mind made up and you know exactly what you want, go from there. But, until then, don't play with fire!
2016-03-18 00:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loving two people at the same time is possible, but this only breeds jealousy, because you will notice your attentions will be less to one, and more to the other, you might even from time to time get the names mixed up...i don't think this really is a good idea...you sound like you want your cake, and eat it.
2006-09-22 10:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's possible. things happen that way sometimes where you vibe with people in a different way. you are single (i hope), so you are able to figure out which one that you are most compatible with. just don't let sex be the reason why you say hey i love two girls. it should be more deeper than that and i'm sure if you look deep into those girls hearts and personalitied you will soon find which one that compliments you more. good luck heartbreaker!
2006-09-22 10:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by TNW22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe that you can. I Have loved many more than two at the same time. My children for instance. I have loved more than one man at once. It's not just love, a romantic feeling, that determines once fidelity to another. Love is one ingredient in a healthy, adult relationship. Yes you must feel love one for the other. One must also feel desire, commitment, a sense of making anothers life better. faithfulness even at times when one does not feel loving one towards the other.
2006-09-22 10:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by hidyho 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, sure you can. You can love one for the way she is, how considerate she is, and you can love another, for how good she looks and how she takes care of kids.
Haven't you ever heard a man say, I wish I could put those two into one person.?
2006-09-22 10:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can love a lot of people at the same time. But you should only be devoted to one.
Been there done that.
make sure you are with the one you want to be with all the time.
2006-09-22 10:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Fotios 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU CAN BE WITH TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME, BUT NOT LOVE BOTH OF THEM THE SAME WAY. YOU WILL ALWAYS LOVE ONE MORE. I WENT THROUGH THIS ALREADY.
2006-09-22 10:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by ZANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋