I am 21, and she still bosses me around. I can't move out without her blessing, because then she will disown me.......She still has control over my money, because she won't replace he name with mine. She doesn't allow talking, wispering, laughing, etc. We aren't allowed to do anything. She claims that I do nothing around the house....I do alot more then the other kids do/did. She thinks I am psycho, because I don't do everything her way. If I don't do it her way she calls me names........There is alot more, but I am running out of time...What do you think?
2006-09-22 10:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
psycho? just a typical woman getting her way.
2006-09-22 23:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by mistermeow2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW that a real problem.
First off do you have a job? If you do with your next check open your own bank account. If she asked you for the money tell her that you want control of your own money. I don't know if she will tell you to leave or not but you have to get out of this situation.
I don't know the whole story but you need to take control of your life, I'm not saying you should disown your mom but you are 21 and in United States that makes you legal to take control of your life.
Once you have enough money or if you have a job that makes you enough money to live on , look for an apartment or flat. Maybe even try to move out with a friend to help split the cost.
All of god's Blessings, Guidance and Love to you
2006-09-22 10:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Fotios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to take heed to that. individually, my mom's cool, yet quite some my pals have psychotic moms. one in all my guy pals' mom is incredibly advise and is verbally abusive to all human beings. She gets loopy for the time of the vacations and throws little temper tantrums and throws issues around the domicile. She's a substantial *****. He avoids her whilst he can. She calls his dad names each and every of the time and says very impolite issues to human beings she would not even understand all that nicely. no one can stand her. She's a threat. yet another pal of mine's mom is a druggie, and grew to become into consistently kicking her out of the domicile for no good reason. all of us call her mom a crack whore. It sucks too, simply by fact my pal is incredibly cool and he or she merits a funky mom.
2016-12-15 12:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if that is how she treats you, I would move out and let her disown me. She doesn't appear to be a positive person in your life, so why would you want her around? If it was me, I would move out and try to keep the relationship, that way, she can only blame herself for not keeping in touch with you.
2006-09-22 10:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 21 year old you need to just move out. I mean I know we all want to respect our parents, but their comes a time when we dont give a crap and just do what we want!! I know how you feel my mom tries to control me I am 20 and married. You just have to do what you want!!
2006-09-22 10:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 21, move out and live your own life. So what if she disowns you, sounds like your misreable anyway!
2006-09-22 10:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to choose between your sanity and the money. If you have a trust fund, get a lawyer on the case.
2006-09-22 10:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same with my mom and sister. im scared it will happen to me. im only 15. my sis is 21 and my mom is like you need to quite school and live with us. and she always tells me she never wants me to grow up. i told her im moving back to cali and she's like now i have to stay in the same state with her. i say pack your stuff and leave.
2006-09-22 10:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all mom's are psycho their kids make them that way poor moms!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 10:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋