Okay so first of all I am 18. Now my BF and I of two years just recently let ourselves start trying things (we are careful), anyway, at first I was scared of his .......... and now I feel wierd because I just think about it like ALOT. Am I wierd, I have asked him like three times if I can do a h*nd j*b. I have all of these thoughts of things I want to do with it lately and it is just his ********. Am I wierd or what?
2006-09-22 09:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No your not weird, your perfectly normal because you realized it's not gonna bite so your use to it and you wanna explore more.
But my advice slow down abit, and discuss this with your boyfriend it's ok to talk about these things so you both get something out of it.
2006-09-22 09:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ali_Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird. You are curious. Personally, I wish you had a relationship with your Mom or another adult female if she is not present with whom you could discuss your curiosities.
Since this is not the case, I wish you and your BF decide to wait another 2 years before "trying things." I applaud both of you for waiting this long. That's fantastic! I applaud that you say you are "careful" while trying things. That's great!
The things you are trying can give so much pleasure but triple the amount of grief if you aren't "careful" enough. Try this little test for your answer: Are the two of you emotionally, physically and financially able to handle the life-changing consequences of your actions? If so, then proceed with experimenting. If you no, then wait.
All experiments have results. Pregnancy is not the worse result but quite devastating if you are ill-prepared to be parents, and you are.
If you wait another 2 years, you both might decide to wait until you've finished your education and are working. Then you could get married and experiment and explore all you want!
I haven't any children but I do believe this is the same discussion I'd have with my daughter or son. I most definitely would want them to come to their parents first just as I did with my parents. They were that special to make us feel comfortable talking to them about anything!
If you and your BF are not going to wait, triple your efforts at being "careful." Okay?
Final thought: Don't sacrifice your youth to gain experience. Adulthood will come soon enough and you'll long for the days of your youth again, to do things differently.
2006-09-22 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jhazzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No welcome to womanhood. That is all I think about too. I can't wait to get off of work so that I can go home and work my Man. Just be careful so that you do not catch something(disease or pregnancy) that you can't handle. Other than that have fun, you only live once. Experience as much as you can when it comes to sex, this way later on in life you won't be left with the shoulda, coulda, woulda's!!!!
2006-09-22 16:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by shaqmc21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to wait till you get married.Second of all if you get pregnant and he don't want no child you in trouble,but you can make him pay child support.Third of all having a baby at your age could ruin,not completely stop but slow you down,your education the degrees you might get and just about school.You are not weird every girl goes through the same thing.Just wait,don't worry about it.
2006-09-22 16:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to wait until you are married. To answer your question - No. You are not odd. When I started doing things with my boyfriend , I just wanted to do things to and with him all of the time. Just be careful .
2006-09-22 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not weird, you're perfectly normal. All these 'wait until you're married' people are so annoying. You're already responsible with contraception, now go enjoy yourself and have some FUN!
2006-09-22 17:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird at all, you are just learning about each other and you are curious! I am willing to bet he thinks about it as much as you do. Just continue being cautious, use protection, and have fun! :)
2006-09-22 16:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by chelle 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird at all! Very natural, just be sure to use good judgement and PROTECTION! Have fun!
2006-09-22 16:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wierd about it, it's healthy to express yourself and desires, no need to be ashamed to tell your partner what you want!
2006-09-22 16:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by spanishqueen39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no theres nothing weird about exploring each others bodies,but make sure you are both comfortable with the idea
2006-09-22 16:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by magiclady2007 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋