Okay so first of all I am 18. Now my BF and I of two years just recently let ourselves start trying things (we are careful), anyway, at first I was scared of his .......... and now I feel wierd because I just think about it like ALOT. Am I wierd, I have asked him like three times if I can do a h*nd j*b. I have all of these thoughts of things I want to do with it lately and it is just his ********. Am I wierd or what?
2006-09-22 09:35:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-22 09:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by doctor_johnnie_jointroller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly are NOT weird. You are learning about an important thing in an adult's life, and are showing a normal curiosity.
The more you learn about sex the more fascinating it becomes. It is a wonderful experience for those who are mature enough to participate in it.
You MUST be very CAREFUL!! Do not allow anyone to try something that you are not quite ready to try. You need to move ahead at your own pace. Also, make sure you use PROTECTION EVERY TIME there is a chance of genital areas touching - even if penetration does not occur. You can catch many STD's by having the areas in contact - even if you don't actually have the penetration.
2006-09-22 16:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is completely normal. You just tried something new. So you want to explore more. Wanting it is just a part of life. That's just the way your body works. Now you do have to be careful. Always use protection and maybe even consider getting on birth control pills.
And remember this. You don't EVER have to do anything you don't want to do. And yes I strongly believe pleasuring the person you love is very good. So go girl and have some fun ;)
2006-09-22 17:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not weird. I can remember a time long ago that I too had a fascination with this same thing. Were you afraid of his thing or what was in it? I became infatuated with both. Just keep it safe and you have the rest of your life to play. Something that you didn't say anything about is how he feels when he makes you happy. Remember what's good for one is good for both.
2006-09-22 16:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weird as long you are not disrespecting him or yourself. Has he complained? I mean you are young and full of hormones so it is only natural to think about sex ALL the time. If you are not doing anything to his privates that hurts him or is just straight crazy, I don't see how you are weird.
2006-09-22 16:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by THICKUMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all!!!!!! u tryed new things and that's y u r thinking about it all the time. it's perfectly normall. When some1 kisses for the 1st time they just wanna kiss kiss and kiss. Try doing other stuff like hanging with friends more often or focussing on college......try to get ur mind of of it for sometime....good luck@
2006-09-22 16:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are perfectly normal. It is natural to be curious and want to explore with your partner. Even women my age like to do the same thing. So count yourself lucky that you have someone who is willing to "let" you explore and just enjoy!
2006-09-22 16:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart there is nothing weird about this. We all as women have experienced this urge to please a man that we have been with especially when you first start experimenting. You should have fun and be careful. And there is nothing to be scared of about his ****.
2006-09-22 16:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally normal but keep in mind it is your best friend, be prepared to lose him when all your experimenting is over. But being a person who is sleeping with my best friend, I have a blast and enjoy it so much more because I enjoy him as a person and he knows all my secrets.
2006-09-22 16:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems pretty normal to me. You're all about experiencing at this point and some how curious and want to explore more.
2006-09-22 16:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋