i have known this guy for ages....we dated when younger,but r friends now....no hanky panky just friends....anyhow i have a boyfriend...he is now married but.....he still likes me still gets upset about my current relationship...and some of the questions i put on yahoo....he's just my friend..i accept his marriage and respect it..can u tell him to please respect mine.any and everyone answer because he needs to hear this.....
2006-09-22 09:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Gemini 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I agree with you he should respect that
2006-09-22 09:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if this guy wants his cake and eat it too. If you are not comfortable with the relationship at hand, tell him so. Tell him how you feel about yourself and the situation. He has no right to tell you how he feels about you dating someone else.
HE IS MARRIED...MARRIED. He chose his life. Now he's trying to control your life. He's not happy that you have a boyfriend? TOUGH! I would take a step back and if he continues to harrass and barage you with questions about your boyfriend. Tell him you'll tell his wife about his "improper' behavior. You might lose him as a friend...but you already have if he doesn't respect you or your feelings. You are much better off without him in your life.
BE STRONG!
2006-09-22 09:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! If you feel like your Ex. is harrassing you or anything then you should feel comfortable telling him to leave you alone. Does he only like you as a friend? By the way you worded your question I can tell that you sincerely like him as a friend and don't want your relationship between the two of you to get akward. Which is understandable- and he should understand it too.
2006-09-22 09:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..check my answers to my last question. i got bashed about a guy who's getting married and sending me songs at work. i mean, you just DONT GET MARRIED but once in my mind...once it's done, it's done...and whether they divorce or not, i'll always be there. you deserve to have someone commit to YOU and ONLY YOU. you know?? so yes, he made the choice of who to marry and he has to live with that. ALTHOUGH, it's sweet and it kinda breaks my heart because of the whole "what might've been" thing, but remember it, lock it in your memory...and move on. :)
2006-09-22 09:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might think im being greedy or want my cake and eat it to. well you right i still love her and i always will try to put your self in my position . i know i was wrong to question who she seeing but sometimes you just say it befor you think and everybody do thats human. just like al green im still in love with her too.
answer this!
2006-09-25 05:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by spades c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo dude....back off or she will contact your wife...
think you have trouble now wait till you meet her lawyer
2006-09-22 09:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feed on drama. You are a drama queen. In my opinion.
2006-09-22 09:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop
2006-09-22 09:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋