I love my boyfriend, lets call him P. I hate this girl, lets call her B. P loves me and likes B as a friend. B loves P and hates me. I talked to P about this and he said that he loves me and not her. But she spends a lot of time with him and she calls him her best friend ever. Now I'm realy scared that my boyfriend will dump me for her, even though he said he wouldnt and that he loves me. What should I do??
2006-09-22 09:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really love my boyfriend so I can't dump him!!
2006-09-22 09:28:01 · update #1
I'm only 13 but please dont tell me that I am too young for any of this!! It really matters to me!! and I cant let P go...
2006-09-22 09:29:28 · update #2
First of all if your friend is wanting your boyfriend, she's not a friend at all! Tell your boyfriend you think he's spending way too much time with her and you're starting to feel a little insecure about this! Be honest with him and let him know how you feel about this situation, chances are if he really loves you , he'll be considerate of your feelings and include you in the things he finds interesting about her! Ease up too because it could be completely innocent!
2006-09-22 09:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you like 15. If he said he love you, then he loves you! If you think that you don't trust him or can't trust him then walk away. Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he hangs out with B. Don't say I want you to stop talking to her because that is ridiculous and stupid. Give him a real reason like (for example: she speaks badly about me and tell him what she says and can prove it to him that she has said these things before you give up on him. After saying all this if he still don't take your side let him go because he doesn't respect you and he can't love you if he don't respect you.
2006-09-22 16:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by ny11203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and don't turn this into such a big deal or you will lose him for sure. Just talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and if he loves you then he will gradually create more distance between himself and her.
2006-09-22 16:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does run off to B, send her a thank-you note!
Not only will she have shown you that P is unfaithful, she will have taught you a life-lesson, that you can't control these things, and that Men enjoy shopping around. They will not change.
2006-09-22 16:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, strange. All of a sudden I can't stop thinking about peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Weird. Oh well.
2006-09-22 16:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, let it go him go and if he comes back to you, then he is meant for you, if he does not, then he is not worth your time.
and as for your girlfriend..she IS NOT a girlfriend and never should be talked about as your girlfriend EVER again...and make sure other girls you know and even don't know...know what type of girl ( and guy ) they are....
please I know it hurts, but find another one..this makes the pain go away faster...
good luck
smile
2006-09-28 20:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if nothing is going on, then stick with it. You called her your friend, she is not a friend. You need to stick by him like she does, and make her feel unwanted, but in a nice and sweet way. be a real woman and pull your claws out, but where he doesn't see.
2006-09-22 16:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them both down in the same room and talk it out. talking is always the first step. dont go kicking her behind first. save that for later if needed :)
2006-09-22 16:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez how old are you guys. If you are teenagers, it's not that serious move on, date other guys, you're too young to be with one guy right now.
If you're an adult kick B's azz.
2006-09-22 16:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't like this, but if she can get him there is nothing you can do to stop it. If she is successful in seducing your boyfriend then she is no friend to you. If that happens, you should get rid of both of them.
2006-09-22 16:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋