Making out?

Question

Neither of us have made out with ANYONE before... and we've been going out for just under 8 months, and want to sttep it up a little.... any help here? I can't use stuff like "follow his lead" cuz I've never done it before and neither has he!
Help!

good lord people. i wasn't talking about having sex. i was talking about making out. and I am mature enough, thanks. And we did make out. A lot. And no, there was no sex. I'm 15, im not gonna just go and have sex with someone.

Answer 1

These days lots of women take the lead in relationships. However, that is not my advise. My advise is, when the timing and mood is right it will just happen. I think you found yourself a pretty great guy there. He's not forcing you into a 'VERY UNCOMFORTABLE' situations. He respects you and that's crucial in any relationship. If you feel you can't wait...\you can subtly set the mood.

Answer 2

First and foremost, you two need to put the brakes on for a minute and educate yourself about sex and the consequences of unprotected sex. Its not a matter of following anyone's lead but a matter of doing what you both want to do. After all, you guys are the ones who will have to deal with the end results whether they be good or bad. If neither of you are ready then there should be no pressure to move to the next level but if you are ready then you both need to sit down and talk about what it is you want to do. Be open and honest with each other and let one another know how you feel about moving to the next level of this relationship. Most importantly be careful and have fun. Trust and commnucation are the keys to making any relationship work and if you have that then everything else will fall in place.

Answer 3

Sounds like you are too young, or you'd have a better idea. I hope that you realize that once you have donated your virginity to someone, you can never retrieve it.

But it's your body, and your emotions. . . . . . .

Get in a very private place, and comfortable, and get to kissing and petting heavily, just begin unbuttoning clothes. Soon the bra Will come off, and when it does and he tastes those sweet nipples, and you begin to feel the buzz in your groin, guide his hand to where you want it, to make you feel good. You know, you've been there before, yourself. Show him what makes you feel good.
Then go from there!
I feel pretty certain that what happens from here on is instinctive; you may have to help him put it at the right opening, but he'll know how to shove!
Please use protection! Help him put it on; that's erotic!

Answer 4

This kind of thing usually comes naturally...I've never heard of anyone getting "make out" or "sex" lessons prior to their first go at it...

You know what kissing and touching is, and I'm sure he does to...both of you just needs to do what feels right (as long as you are mature enough, and prepared for any consequences).

Answer 5

Just get in the mood talk about it at less for a little while and then just let things happen is better that way.

Answer 6

Hopefully you old enough and mature enough,let nature lead the way

Answer 7

Seek out birth control now just in case you have a spur of ther moment weakness and get caught up in your new wanting. At least have condoms and insist on there use.

Answer 8

Trust me, it's all natural. It'll come to ya. It's like walking, you might "fall" a couple of times but then you'll get the hang if it.

Answer 9

first don't do it now, want till you know ever thing about him, little dirty secret, wan to move up , do something else , when you start kissing for the first time , there will be sex, know that.

Answer 10

Do people think before posting questions here?