2006-09-22 08:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by venkat b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Start by being who you are, not a cheap version of someone else.
List all of your strengths and talents and then list your weaknesses.
Us the gifts and talents and abilities that are given to you to help others and these are some of the ways to develop your personality.
2006-09-22 09:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out into the world and do different things. Make a goal for yourself to try one new thing each week. Go to a weekend class, read a magazine you would never normally read, volunteer at a food shelter or a school, make a recipe for family or friends that no one has ever tried.
Get a journal and at the end of each new experience, write down what you liked most and least about it. This will give you a moment to reflect and think about the details of the experience.
Over time, you will develop a wide range of things to talk about, giving you more in common with other people, and making you more interesting overall.
2006-09-22 16:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important factor in personality development is ones
ATTITUDE, always have a positive attitude.
2. You must have good communication skills.
3.Good Leadership quality
2006-09-24 00:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by sajad B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are an individual who has your own individual goals about who you want to be and how you want to improve, I think that it's impossible for me to say "you should do X, Y, and Z." Instead, I think I can point you to a couple of books that I've found really helpful and influential in my own life. They have helped me develop my confidence, public speaking skills, life goals, and sense of life purpose. In no particular order, they are:
1) The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm
This book gives great perspective on what it means to be a loving person and how to make a relationship work. In contrast to the Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus approach which states that men and women are different so here's how you deal with one another, this book shows how we all are the same in the sense that we benefit from treating love as a practice (something we do) rather than something that we should shop for and expect to be given to us without doing much in return.
2) What Color is Your Parachute? by Richard Nelson Bolles
This book is a famous career classic which shows how to discover your optimal career and the nuts and bolts of how you go about doing it. There's a great chapter on how to discover your purpose in life.
3) A free online book called You Can Choose to Be Happy by Tom G. Stevens, Ph.D.
http://www.csulb.edu/~tstevens/hcontent.htm
I found this free online book fairly recently. Dr. Stevens offers some great perspective on how the key to happiness is, in some ways, about becoming resilient to the things that happen around you and to you (your environment) and finding a source of happiness and confidence from within. He does more than just say "this is key and you should do it," he actually shows you how to apply it in your own life.
I wish you the best!
2006-09-22 16:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by goodjeans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-09-22 16:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read Dale Carnegie's "how to win friends and influence people". It helped me get along better with others. Mainly by helping me look at things from other's point of view.
2006-09-23 12:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by bttrswt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience and give your full faith in god ,.. u will have have ur personality build
2006-09-22 16:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by deres no straight road2heaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything with your personality otherwise you will look like jim carry in me myself and irene
2006-09-22 16:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOGA is good
2006-09-22 20:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋