2006-09-22 08:46:39 · 26 answers · asked by simlpeme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ask him straight out " what the hell do you think you are doing?".
2006-09-22 08:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay i read all of the other answers and all i can say is OH COME ON! you guys act as if he's trying to actually f*ck her. get real! have you NEVER been in a relationship and saw another man/woman and NOT been attracted at least ONCE?! to me it sounds like he is having a mid-life crisis and i personally think that you need to get a life and worry about other things asides from your husband finding someone younger and not to sound extremely mean but most likely thinner attractive. are you going to tell me that if a ups man came up to your house with rock hard abs and a nice tan and a** and is your dream man you wouldn't be attracted at all? get real! men think about sex how many times a day? now i could understand if you were a little more elaborate about the question and said he keeps touching her and blah, blah, blah but for him to basically say she's cute is totally ridiculous! you sound like you have a trust issue. do you find someone else attractive now and you're just saying something about your husband because you don't want to look bad? i don't care if i get voted for a best answer or not but to me this is the dumbest question i have heard yet. GET A F*CKIN' LIFE!
2006-09-22 08:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for your husband to be attracted to other women. Assuming that these girls are not 10 years old. Give the guy a break. I am sure you have been attracted to other men. Just because she happens to be his son's gf doesnt matter. You cant control who you think is attractive. As long as he is not acting on it, I would not worry!!
2006-09-22 08:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by j3572h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your husband and how old is the girlfriend?
If she is under 21 then the next time he is drooling over her.. nudge him in the side and point out that he was having sex before she was even born (and do so rather loudly so everyone hears).
If she is over 21 then sweety she may be fair game and you need to talk with him about it, because I'm sure this has been an ongoing problem and will continue to be one.
2006-09-22 08:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up! Let him know this type of behavior is unacceptable and that your son is going to resent him for his childish behavior! I'm curious, how does your son react to this, knowing his dad is into his girlfriend? He sounds like a real pervert to me and if he didn't quit with his idiotic ways I'd definitely give him an ultimatum! Either you or this childish false hope of wanting to be with his sons girl! (GOOD LUCK)
2006-09-22 09:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly acceptable to be attracted to people younger than you (within reason) - it's biological.
Whether or not someone acts on attraction is the part about which to be concerned. Obviously;being married your husband should not be acting on his attraction toward anyone.
2006-09-22 09:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,thats a hard one. What does ur son think of this? Could be u just have to really set boundries or get ready for some serious family discussion. Making yourself interesting to your husband may keep him distracted. lol (Maybe middle age crazies) good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-22 08:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your son to stop bringing his gf over to your house.....your husband sounds like a silly pervert who doesn't care about losing you or his son for some teenager.
2006-09-22 08:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you girl....really I do. But just let him know how you feel about it. I can't believe he told about this,but then again he is a man.
2006-09-22 08:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Amber R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because he's attracted to her does not mean he wants to sleep with her..........
we are all attracted to other people once in a while it's
only normal...............
2006-09-22 09:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he isn't in the same room with her for a period of time,I think it'll be alright.
2006-09-22 08:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋