My Schnookums really wants to join the Marines, and I was just wondering how pple deal with their wife/husband bf/gf being in the military..Its gotta be hard, but how do you cope with their absence?
2006-09-22 08:43:51 · 8 answers · asked by tyty_loves_matty 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
My husband is in the Marines and is currently deployed. I moved across the country to be with him when he got reassigned to a different station. After we went through all the stress of moving, we moved on to the stress of an impending deployment. While he's deployed, you worry about what he's seeing, how he'll change, among a million other things. It's a million times worse if you decide to have children during deployments. It's not an easy life and most wouldn't choose it, but it's not impossible to get through, and if you end up successful, it'll make your relationship a thousand times stronger. The military provides you with plenty of resources as far as counseling and support, and I think it IS a good idea to move to a military town, because the only way you can ever, truly understand how difficult it is is to go through it yourself. You really have to be prepared to make a big committment to yourself and him, because it's serious stuff when they leave, and you need to be able to trust and rely on each other 100%.
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2016-10-15 07:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by graviett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is an Air Force pilot, and his brother was a marine. It's difficult but you get used to it. You have to develop a strong support system and make the most of your time togheter. The military is very good at taking care of the spouses.
2006-09-22 08:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's so very hard. You should expect him to go to Iraq. You should also expect hardships from your relationship from it. He won't come back the same. If he goes don't move to the Marine town you'll be miserable. Those towns are awful. Try to stay busy and do not watch the news.
2006-09-22 08:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that he is doing something very honorable that most people in this country are not willing to do.
2006-09-22 08:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Curt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very hard, if not married most don't make it. even when married its draining and stressful. success rate isnt very high, especially for Marine families.
2006-09-22 08:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by brett.brown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will seperate into two ways if you dont cooperate with em'. But if your pacience is good enough you will have true love, but you will suffer, and so will they.
2006-09-22 08:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy BAbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and DRIVE ON!
2006-09-23 02:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋