there is this guy in my a few of my classes and we've known each other since we were babies and i've always had a crush on him and i never told him, he always stareing and smiling at me but we never talk much like we use to and my mom and his mom don't talk alot either anymore but he keeps saying he like this one girl at our school but everyone keeps tellin me he likes me but i don't know do u think he likes me and if u ansewer thanks alot
2006-09-22 08:43:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way we're in high school now
2006-09-22 08:44:25 · update #1
I remember high school :) It was so hard because you are trying to find your place in the fast lane :) You guys aren't in the middle school anymore, that is the first thing. The second thing is this...if you have feelings toward him, and you think he may towards you, what can it hurt to push it just a little to see if something happens? Ask him if he wants to have lunch with you, or even go to a matinee movie on the weekend or something that just the two of you would go do....the worst he can say is no. Don't spill your guts or anything, ya know, just kind of play it like "I was wondering if you were doing anything this weekend, and if not, do you wanna hang out and maybe go to a movie or something?" That way, you won't lose the friendship because you feel embarrassed, and he won't feel pressure just because you like him. If there is something there, that night will most definitly end with a kiss :) You can never tell with guys these days on how they are feeling, but guys are a whole lot deeper these days than they were way back when I was in school LOL They were pretty shallow. Also, you have a head start here honey because you have known each other all your lives. Find your comfort zone, and fly with it. Good luck and God bless :)
2006-09-22 09:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by pamalamadingdong_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the part that you are in high school dosn't change the situation but ok. Well I don't have any reson why we doesn't like you and if you know each other very well as you said then well I guess he is suposed to like you more than that of you liking him I can't really explain why but that is how it has been for at list the last 20 years or more so I am beting the girl is you and I will bet any mony on this that the girl that he likes is you and you better start to talk to him and ask him things and try to make him tell you that he likes you and if you are all ways going away then you will give him no chose but to make him chose some one else when It could be you well that is my sugestion..... Good Luck
2006-09-22 15:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does because it sounds like maybe he is trying to make you jealous or something. You should let him know how you feel but, first get closer. Talk to him more because people change though you may think that you know someone when you don't. Lay it to him that you like him slowly though and don't be to forward about it...this can lead them away.Hope I helped some.Hope things go good with you to.If it doesn't work maybe he isn't your type and there are alot other fish in the sea.Good idea of getting other peoples thoughts about this.Your friends sound like good friends.They are the once that probably would know.Did they ask him?see ya.Have a great day!
2006-09-22 15:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl_swt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him when he's alone and ask he why don't we talk like we used to I miss that don't you.That should start something someone needs to break the ice so go for it it will be fine you'll see.
2006-09-22 16:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swty..probably he feels shy to tell u directly that he likes u..i am sure he is in love with u...if u get an oppurtunity just try and ask him who that girl is..i am sure he wud say that its u...i think it wud be a gud idea if u call and spk with him over phone....might be he is afraid to tell it to u directly because he might hav a feeling in him that u wud reject him..so..just try to spk with him regarding this...hope this will help u..all the best
2006-09-22 15:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds positive why don't you ask him. Maybe you are the girl that everyone is talking about.
2006-09-22 15:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Boo Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should start building your friendship again and drop some hints. guys are dumb. he might like you but is to scared to say anything because he doesnt know if you feel the same.
2006-09-22 15:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by mechanicalanimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that concerned just ask him to lunch and start talking....be open & honest about your feelings and see where it goes from there!!!!! Good Luck!!! :)
2006-09-22 15:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, it happen to me too but when I asked her out she thought I was crazy. She told me that I was like a brother to her!!!!!!!!!! I felt like a fly
2006-09-22 15:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by too K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just go up to him and ask him if you are s close as you say he should have no reason not to tell you but if he starts blushing it's true
2006-09-22 15:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋