i love my boyfriend and i think that it mutual but we always seem to argue about the simplest of things, if we're not arguing we are making out or not speaking at all, i can't seem to have a conversation with him, what should i do to stop arguing with him without going crazy?
2006-09-22 08:33:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just calm down and tell him that you love him and you dont want to aruge. Just talk to him and try to figure out a way to work things out . I hope everything works out for you.
2006-09-22 08:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose your arguments. Refuse to argue over the small things in life. There can only be an argument if you allow there to be one.
2006-09-22 08:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of arguments are about money, if its not about money, baby momma drama or the other 5% the wandering eye(my favorite lol)ask yourself how much do u love him and then ask yourself how much do u love u, if u love him more than u love yourself slide a ring on his finger,lol cuz ur a perfect match. ask him y u argue so much , its a love hate thing trust me.
2006-09-22 08:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you jumped into sexual too quickly and never got a good chance to get to know each other. revert is what I say tell him it is time for a do over. tell him that you need dating time no sex until your ready. if there is a fight then there is no sex. you want a relationship no a love hate type of love well you have to set boundaries or you will never have the relationship you desire.
2006-09-22 08:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Zor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you have the mind of a 12 year old ......if you are older then you are a dope.... if you argue all the time this is not love.....dump him be for you find him hitting you and you wind up in the hospital
2006-09-22 09:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by oyster bay bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well fighting is usually normal between couples but i dont think its too healthy for the relationship if yall have to fight all the time.but if yall have gone along time without breaking up b-cuz of a fight..then yal are a good couple fightin or not
2006-09-22 08:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You're in an explosive relationship and it sounds unhealthy. You need to get out before it gets worse! Trust me I know from experience just like yours!!
2006-09-22 08:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make out with someone else unless you enjoy arguing
2006-09-22 08:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel thank you for asking this question cause i need the same answers.
2006-09-22 08:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by love me like me hate me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie.....what you are defining is not Love.....it is called immaturity!
2006-09-22 08:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋