If girls makeout, are they defenitally lesbian? I mean, I'm 13 and this guy on my bus asked me and my bfff to makeout. She was willing, but it didn't feel right. Why? Also, like, she'll sit on my lap and we'll guy and kiss on the cheek, but that's all. She has madeout with a girl before. Why do guys like it so much, and are girls lesbians if they makeout?
2006-09-22 08:30:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE ASKING A QUESTION LIKE THAT, AND DEFINATELY TOO YOUNG TO BE ACTING ON ANY ANSWERS YOU GET
2006-09-22 08:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well girl let me tell you, first of all you are only 13 years old and you dont even know what you want right now. You might find yourself attracted to your best friend, but that is because the both of you might like a lot of the same things, and you might feel that you have feelings for her. don't automatically think that you are a lesbian, most girls go through that, and it is just a phase. within time you will realize your feelings and see if you are into guys or girls. When you try something new sometimes it feels right then sometimes it doesnt but dont jump to conclusions...
2006-09-22 08:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by mima182 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gross and disgusting the way boys like a free show and expect the girls to perform. Why should you do something you don't like???? Why should you be doing anythign sexy for boys to watch? What the heck are you doing at age 13 kissing other girls for the thrill of some boy?? THat's wrong! What would your mother think of this?? Get her OFF your lap- you two are acting skanky. Stop it right this minute and start behaving like a lady, not some wanna-be porn star. It's wrong.
2006-09-22 08:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad you didn't do it. I mean, this guy or other guys wanting to watch you kiss girls should go to Seaworld and watch the seals if he wants to be entertained. Don't fall for that stuff because it is just for his enjoyment. Some guys aren't thinking with their brains and perhaps some other part of their anatomy so don't be their Seaworld entertainment. Be true to yourself. Also, if you sense doing that is how you can be popular, forget it!!! By the way, if you are a girl who likes girls, that's nobody's business but yours and is not someone else's entertainment!!!
2006-09-22 08:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, 13 is old enough to learn that you can't live your life doing things that other people "like" or ask you to do.
That guy on your bus is a jerk, and kissing your friend didn't feel right because you didn't want to do it. Be yourself and make decisions for yourself. Doing things people tell you to do won't make you cool or more liked. It just makes you a joke and a pushover. You are better than that!
2006-09-22 08:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation before and i am now 30...if it doesn't feel right, then i would explain to her that she is your BFFF, but that is as far as it can go, and if you do choose to be with her then it is up to you, and the way you feel after the fact, as if you are a lesbian cause it will go one of 2 ways, it will feel right or it won't...good luck!
2006-09-22 08:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by lora marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Lesbian is a permanent preference and attraction to women. Never making out with a women doesn't make you straight. Making out with a women doesn't make you a lesbian. But mabe that guy is gay and trying to feel better about it.
2006-09-22 08:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really is a conversation you should be having with your mother or some other adult that you trust face to face.
At 13 there are a lot of areas in sexuality that what you have described touches on and discussing this with an adult would be best.
2006-09-22 08:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that does not make you a lesbian, but stop it if it does not feel right to you. stop trying to impress a guy if you don't like something and don't do it to be cool around your friends.
forget those guys because you don't want them to drag your name throught the mud- making fun or you , teasing you , or give you a bed reputation later down the line because of something you do today
2006-09-22 08:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by shalirha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I m not a lesbian and i've kissed girls. Hey she'll probably move passed this stage just like i did. I'im 16 now and i'm passed it.
2006-09-22 08:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of teenage girls experiment in this way - it doesn't make you a lesbian necessarily. You're just a teen and its normal to experiment.
2006-09-22 08:32:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋