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Contrary to the outraged outcry heard from many, it is legal to marry your second cousin in all U.S. states, and is legal to marry your first cousin in 20 states and the District of Columbia. Most states recognize such first cousin marriages if they took place in a state that allows such marriage. The incidence of birth defects in children of cousin marriages is only slightly higher than in non-cousin marriages. Check the site listed below for further facts and explanations. As to whether you should propose, that depends on whether you know if she returns your feelings or not. You can't just propose to a woman out of the clear blue sky! How long have you had these feelings for her? How old are each of you? It would be best, I think, to take things very slowly and make sure that your feelings aren't just a temporary thing and to find out for sure whether or not she would be open to your proposal. You could ruin your relationship with your entire family by jumping the gun. Tread very carefully. As you can see from the other answers, this is an explosive issue. You must be absolutely sure of your feelings and confident that she returns them before you make a move.

2006-09-22 08:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 1 0

Yes you should. And have a test done to make sure that your children will be healthy and ok. And then have a wonderful marriage. You both come from the same relatives and so you know so much about each other and what each other likes. You have an advantage that some couples take years and many fights to find out. Good luck. You love her right???? She will love you just for that. Something that is hard for men to do these days. LOVE their wives..

2006-09-22 08:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by meeeohmyyyy 3 · 1 0

20/20 had a undeniable in this numerous yrs in the past. My cousin referred to as me while the tutor began and mentioned, "Cuz, you have have been given to work out this application." We stayed on the telephone mutually and watched the section. in accordance to twenty/20, study has shown that married cousins have a extremely decrease incident value of giving start to toddlers with actual or psychological issues than non appropriate mothers and fathers had. So there is not any genetic reason of cousins to no longer marry. that's against the regulation in some states. So examine it out. My cousin & I have been so very lots in love. If we had time-honored 50 yrs in the past what all of us understand now, we would be celebrating our 50th wedding ceremony anniversary quickly. Our households might have not authorized in any respect. yet because it grew to become out, our households did no longer approve of the non appropriate spouses that we did choose for. stable luck.

2016-10-15 07:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by graviett 4 · 0 0

Well aren't people mis informed.
It is not incest and is legal in the UK.
Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were first cousins, and their off spring are part of every Royal household in Europe with no genetic defect.

2006-09-22 08:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 1 0

first thing first is u should not think of your cozin for this type of relationship.i also have a cozin we share very friendly relationship.i don't think u should propose her.
it will spoil your family relationship.
but still if your heart doesn't agree,u tell her when u both r alone and assure that she'll not spread this out
i know 'ye jo dil kambakhat manta nahi'
if u want further advice u can chat or send me e-mail
may god bless u

2006-09-22 19:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by anthrax 2 · 0 0

From your name it looks like that you are a Muslim. In your sect it is allowed to marry a cousin so go ahead,why ask others on yahoo?

2006-09-23 00:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by gelilio 2 · 0 0

You love her as your sister. Find any other girl for proposing.

2006-09-22 08:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0 1

Listen to what your 'gut' feeling says. And follow it! Or speak to yourself, ask yourself whether this is true love or lust. If it is true love, go for it! All the best, dude

2006-09-26 05:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by coldfire 2 · 0 0

Muslims can marry cousins, so go ahead if she is also willing...

2006-09-22 09:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can't marry her. Unless she is your cousin 4 times removed. Then conceivably you could do it.

2006-09-22 08:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by crystalwitchayer 2 · 0 2

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