How many married people would cheat if they new they would never get caught?
2006-09-22 08:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by onebighead 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would never cheat! Deprived or not, I would hurt myself. I take pride in the fact I am faithful!
2006-09-22 08:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope and never!
Sounds like you missed the point of marriage. Cheating is cheating weather you get caught or not. And if you're sexually deprived, do something about it (with your spouse).
Best of luck.
2006-09-22 08:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel deprived??? You might want to try to change things around a little be spontaneous. Don't cheat you never know when you gonna get caught and trust me you will.
2006-09-22 08:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Janai Marie's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not only getting caught, but also, what if you fall in love with the other person, and if this is just to satisfy our sexual fantasies etc, what are the odds of catching a disease.
I understand what you mean though.
2006-09-22 11:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by jimbomediterraneo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're not getting what you need, but that means your husband/wive prolly isn't either. Sit and talk about it- you're MARRIED!! nothing is taboo to talk about w/ your spouse. I call my bf when he's at work and tell him he needs to come have a conversation with my vagina cus they haven't spoken in a while. haha I am not usually like that so he knows if I'm saying it, it's at the point where he needs to fix it. You're prolly just in a rut. By that new KY warming mist and just leave it on the kitchen table/ his office/ whatever "by accident" when he picks it up and comes to ask you what's up? Just give him a sexy smile and pull him into your room. Remember... how you probably used to be?
2006-09-22 08:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for a year and a half and I am massively sexually deprived. Everyone who advises to talk about it with your spouse have obviously never been in this position. I HAVE talked about it with my spouse many many many times both calmly and while packing my suitcases to leave. I love my wife insanely, and her libido used to be more than adequate until I came here to be with her. What's worse is that it doesn't bother her at all. She isn't the one suffering because she doesn't need sex anymore and it's actually a chore for er to have sex with me (her words) I figured it was something I am doing wrong (though she always enjoyed sex before) she isn't faking and has never faked anything as she is painfully honest when it comes to sex. So I read up and asked her what feels good and what I should do different except her advise is always contradictory and on the very rare times she is turned on everything I do feels great for her. Then I figured she doesn't find me attractive anymore, which is what I still think though she vehemently protests this. She says I was better looking when we first met (which sucks because I think she is much better looking now then when we first met and she is getting more beautiful by the day) I haven't changed all that much. I've gained like 15 pounds since then but I was scrawny at the time we met and I am only 5 pounds over my ideal body weight. Then her excuse was that it was the birth control pills she started taking before I moved here. So I read up on it and it is definitely the leading cause of loss of sex drive. So she went off them. I thought her libido would come back but no go, now I get less sex AND I have to use condoms. Great. So I decided we should maybe go see a sex therapist but they charge a fortune! I am willing to pay it but she really doesn't want to go so I came up with a few free alternatives. I sent her to her doctor and she had a hormonal examination which shows everything is absolutely normal. The doctor says that stress is also a leading cause in loss of sex drive so she says that she needs to relax, and that a sex therapist will just make her more stressed out. I am at the end of my rope, the relaxation is not doing anything for our sex life . I think it's just another excuse, I mean seriously! How many women out there need to reach a Zen meditative state to want to have sex with their husbands?!?!? These forums at least let me vent a little. She is not cheating on me, I'm certain of that and I know she loves me very much (though I still think she is not attracted to me) My self-esteem is in the gutter, and I don't think anyone knows how demeaning and painful it is to have every intimate physical contact annoy her instead of please her. There is nothing technical that I can do differently. If I can't touch any intimate part of her body without an automatic rebuke how can I do ANYTHING differently? Set the mood? Yeah, I've heard THAT before too and it's all bogus! I don't need to orchestrate a massive operation just to get laid. I will never cheat on her, it goes against everything I believe, but as much as I love her I don't believe I can stay with her. If things don't improve after the sex therapists and whatever else I'll have no option but to leave. It's not like I've had tons of girlfriends and participated in the sex Olympics before I met her and somehow I feel far more deprived now than I ever did when I was single. When I was single there was the hope that I will meet someone and we would have a great relationship both physical and emotional, now even that hope seems to be shattered. Even with my low self esteem I know that I deserve more than a lifetime of begging for whatever scraps of physical attention I get. I shouldn't have to tear myself apart over something that should be fun and given freely. Marriage may not be all about sex, but sex is definitely a big part of it and any woman or man who barely ever feels the need for physical intimacy with his/her spouse should understand that they shouldn't be married them.
That's my input,
I probably got a lot more in-depth than I should have but I need to vent every now and then.
In general though, contrary to popular sitcoms, statistics show that married couples are more sexually satisfied than singles.
I believe that, the fact I have problems doesn't stop me from believing that two people who want to get married would have at least a few years of sex filled bliss.
2006-09-24 08:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by icefyre 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was celebate for a number of years. Divorced now. Probably would have, if not for the way I was raised.
2006-09-22 08:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did cheat a long time ago. I knew it and that was pain enough.
2006-09-22 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have a better arrangement - we sleep around WITH each other's permission - it's called Swinging... try it sometime!
2006-09-22 08:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋