A man asks you out for Friday night, early in the week, it is now friday at 2pm and he has not called.?

Question

You have spoken with him a couple times during the week, the last time was tuesday when he stopped by. Should he have called by now to confirm your plans? Plus, this would be your 1st date.

Answer 1

I don't think there should be a first date even if he were to show up. His behavior is inconsiderate if not rude. He asked YOU out. You shouldn't have to hold your breath or read minds to figure out what's going on. Go have fun with your girlfriends.

Answer 2

Errr, what did you guys do when he "stopped" by.. some guys aren't into the whole etiquette of being proper and calling to confirm plans. Either way,, call the guy up and see if you start playing the "tag game" on the cell phone, like he doesn't answer or it goes straight to the voice mail. Don't over do it, cause that's stalking, lol.

Good thing is you aren't leaving it up to him, and you'll know sooner then later, about your plans tonight. If he doesn't show, call the gal pals and head out for a night of "why men suck" bashing,, everyone has a story,, and you'll get some good laughs and probably feel better. GIRLPOWER! Hay, you might even find a hottie who will get your digits this evening..

Life is short DIVA,, go be a GODDESS!

Answer 3

CALL HIM! C'mon its 2006 what are you waiting for? Give him a ring and tell him that before you make any plans you want to confirm what the two of you talked about earlier in the week. He probably will be impressed that you remember and was thinking of him. It will come across as being considerate not desperate. LOL!

Answer 4

I think it's rude that he asked you out on Tuesday but has neglected to touch base with you. How does he know your plans haven't changed or vice versa?? If I were you, when he does call I would probably reschedule for a later time. Good Luck!!

Answer 5

I hate when that happens to me!!! The polite thing to do is for him to call the night before and set things up (where do go, how to get there, what time, etc...) especially on the first date. Maybe he is nervous and put off calling you. But make sure he treats you with respect, otherwise dump him. This is not negotiable.

Answer 6

It's just part of first-date jitters. Enjoy it! Maybe he'll call, maybe he'll stand you up. What really matters at this stage is the suspense because neither of you know each other yet and you don't know what to expect. Why get your hopes up? Just be grateful that you can get a date! If not this guy, the next. Fun!

Answer 7

If you already have a time and place set up then why does he need to call (again)?

If you do not have a time and place set then I would make other plans and if he calls tell him that since you didn't hear from him that you made other plans and that maybe you can try again next weekend.

Answer 8

If he cares about your feelings, he should have cultivated the relationship during the week (I assume you work together or close by where you see each other at least occasionally).

I would not date him until he shows he is interested enough to take the opportunities provided him to show he is interested in you. I hope it works out for you.

Answer 9

I would say he should have called by now. There's still a little time left for him to pull this out of the fire but not much- hope he does! Keep us posted.

Answer 10

you're too anxious....give him time to call you. don't call him because you guys already confirmed everything and there's need for him to keep calling to say the same thing over and over. he will call you around the time that he said you are going out. i would say sit and see what happens. if no call no show, you know how they would treat that at work...you're fired without possibilities of being rehired.