2006-09-22 07:22:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a friend who was seeing a married man. Made me think a lot about her character. I stopped being friends with her.
2006-09-22 07:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop! She's betraying a woman and setting herself up for failure and self destruct. Tell her that when you do something so wrong like that, it will come back to hunt her. Even if she doesn't feel guilty, when she gets in an exclusive relationship it will happen to her as a payback so she'll know the pain she's caused. Women should protect each other not destroy each other. Tell her to have more self-respect and not be some toy, right now that's all she's allowing herself to be.Tell her to go earn back her dignity starting by not to "seeing" that dog again. As the good friend you are knock some sense into her, let her know you won't be able to trust her if she's willing to hurt another woman.How could you be positive she won't do it to you next? She must change in order to call herself a friend.
2006-09-22 14:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her seeing this man; be honest with her and let her know that this is wrong of her and she's only going to ruin her name, (if she has'nt already) Tell her that this bothers you and it definately is not right! Someone will get hurt; whether it be her, the existing wife of this man, or mabee there's kids involved! Regardless, what she's doing is wrong! Ask her how she'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot! Throw in that if this man is dating her and he's married, he can't possibly be truthful to her and she's probley not the only one he's messing around with! Ask her if she's heard of AIDS! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-22 14:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say what you have to say . If she is wanted to continue this relationsship, just kindly remind her that she should think that he will leave his wife for her and then say that if you were married to him , would you feel the same if she was being cheated on.
I had a friend like that and she was cheating on her husband and gloating about it. Whne the guy dumped her , she was devestated and I was nowhere to be found. I dont put up with that nonesence.
2006-09-22 14:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mother did that , and one of my friends , I think it is bullshit ,, how would they like to have some one messing with their husband ? I believe you are married for a reason .. when my mom was dating this married man I was only 14 teen and his wife would come around and i would make smart comments to her about it .. my friend did not care that he had young 3 boys to take care of . tell her how you feel about it , then let her make an *** out of her self ..
2006-09-22 14:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deal with?
Well you can't make your friend do anything, but personally I would have a hard time being friends with someone who was capable of that sort of activity. I would let the friendship die after stating my position clearly.
2006-09-22 14:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tavita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a matter of time til the spouse deals with it ! TROUBLE is ahead !
2006-09-22 14:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would voice my opinion and leave it alone. you really cant make her do anything, she is an adult and we dont always make wise choices. tell her you dont agree with it and dont come to you for advice when she gets hurt. if its bothering you that much, restrict your contact with her. who knows she might bring you into her drama and you dont want that.
2006-09-22 14:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your friend is going to do whatever they want, no matter how wrong it is, just dont encourage them, tell them that you dont want to hear anything about the adulters
2006-09-22 14:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by hermosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can really do. You can tell what you think about what she's doing but you can't force her to stop.
Maybe distance yourself from her.
2006-09-22 14:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by RoseXXX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋