Guys - if you have a friend with benefits, and you agreed to stop the benefits for a little while (because she was developing feelings), however you are STILL friends.
Would you stop hanging out with her alone to remove the temptation of having sex?
2006-09-22 07:14:00 · 15 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'd be cool hanging out with her, because I respect her wishes. This has happened to me, and we're still friends today (no "extra benefits") She's a great person. If you feel too tempted, then you might want to try a "cooling off" period.
2006-09-22 07:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the key word in your phrase is "Friend" A freind is someone you can count on at anytime and if the only thing they ever wanted when they were with you is the benefits then I think that the friend part of the relationship is lacking. A friend should respect your wishes. I am not going to say that it would be easy to be alone with someone you have had intimate relations with and not get a little caught up in the moment. But in the final analysis a friend would respect your wishes.
2006-09-22 14:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, that is a close call. I think I would try, cause once you are intimate it is hard not to be. You have to get used to the idea slowly. The first couple times you are alone all you are gonna think about it doing the bump and grind. So if the horizontal mambo is out of the question you have to hang out with other people to distract you for a while.
2006-09-22 15:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't care about the women's feelings or the temptations. They would only quit hanging out if the girl was becoming clingy and possessive and starting to interfer with other conquests.
2006-09-22 15:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by whajagonado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on if she was trying to establish property rights and limit my finding another "friend with favors". Girls tend to get possessive and get clingy after they have started having sex with a guy. Long as she was cool with not hampering my trolling, I'd be good with hanging out with her. Heck she could introduce me to my next and give me a high recommendation.
2006-09-22 16:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point I would probably give my friend space so that I didnt hurt her feelings IF i didnt like her more than just a friend with benifits. Now if I had similar feelings I would sit down and discuss those feelings and see what comes of it.
2006-09-22 14:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by va350 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This friends with benefits stuff is total crap. I think young girls are selling themselves short. You are worth so much more, don't encourage men to act irresponsibly.
Stop the FWB stuff all together. Get a vibrator.
2006-09-22 14:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by robertspeg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i will
i m actually in the same situation right now
i had a friend with benefit she caught feelings and now i dont talk to her because she scare me away cuz she kept telling me she loves me n right now i m not up for that
i avoid her calls and i feel bad but i cant lead no one on
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2006-09-22 14:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well if shes developing feelings maybe u to should think of making it as a couple
2006-09-22 14:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure!!! 'course no!!! i will rid the temptations having sex with you!!! surely it will remove any temptations after that
2006-09-22 14:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by marco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋