2006-09-22 07:13:02 · 19 answers · asked by frannerz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there...you didnt give any detail as to what exactly leads you to suspect that your boyfriend is gay so its a tough one...if you have strong suspicions then i would say talk to him about the things that lead you to suspect this rather than out and out asking him if he is gay...because if he is or is struggling with his sexuality then you are giving him a chance to open up to you and talk about it but if he's not then id say he could be a little offended to say the least that you,his girlfriend think that he is...this way you give him a chance to talk without accusing and offending him, hope this helps,good luck :0)
2006-09-22 08:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it depends! You HAVE to be careful!!! If you confront him and he isn't... you are going to be REALLY embarrassed! And he is too! Aswell as gutted!
First you need to think about what are the ''signs''. Don't get the sexualioty of gay confused with socially gay. They are totally different. A man can be 'socially gay' and not fancy men. This means that he will take care of himself, go to the hairdressers, notice girls shoes and things like that. However, if he stares at a mans *** for half hour then i think we are talking gay!
Good luck and be careful!
2006-09-22 07:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't really given any real indication why you think he's gay...if you approach him about this, and he is not gay, you're going to look pretty stupid, and loose him in the process, be absolutely sure of what you're doing.
2006-09-22 07:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what gives you that idea in the first place? If he is like me and just likes the odd digit placed in his bottom then you have no worries but if he starts listening to the village people grows a large fluffy moustache and dressing in black leather then maybe its time to have that long talk..... good luck
2006-09-22 12:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it very sad for all involved, when a gay guy chooses to deny his sexuality, and date a woman.
Confront, or rather ask him, in a sensitive way.
2006-09-22 07:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shoukd make really sure because men are very, very funny about there sexuality but if you see a very clear sign then leave him if he really wants to be with women then he will come back,
2006-09-22 07:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolatemac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeppers, you might want to get the scoop from him. You are after all, on a need to know basis.
2006-09-22 07:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's gay then your relationship is over? so just end it why make a big deal of what is no longer your business?
2006-09-22 08:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely
2006-09-22 07:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by anane653 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest using a strap on during sex. If he flinches, you may be wrong. If he bends over and spreads his cheeks...ding, ding, ding, we have a winner!
2006-09-22 07:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋