I was just wondering why you would or have tricked your bf so you could get pregnant? I would really appreciate to hear from women that have or are planning to do something that deciving.
2006-09-22 06:55:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I did not or have not thought of doing that...I have also said it is "deciving". My best friend got caught in this trap....
2006-09-22 07:08:34 · update #1
i kind of agree with cheer to a certain level. it is always the responsibility of both partners to protect themselves from an unwanted pregnancy. however, tell a guy you are on birth control when you aren't doesn't make for a very nice girlfriend. and almost 98% of the time that plan backfires anyway.
i will say this, my husband tricked me into getting pregnant so i wouldn't leave. as odd as this sounds, we were only fuq buddies at the time and i wasn't going to commit myself to any relationship. he knew i wasn't on birth control at the time, we were using the pull out method and i was still on remnant of Depo-vera. BTW, he told me after he was trying on purpose. as luck would have it, i ended up falling in love with him anyway and we got married last month. so in his case, it worked out.
2006-09-22 07:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mother did that - and I was the result. Back in those days, the 'right thing to do' was to get married. Over the next 9 years, she had 3 more kids - to make sure he would stick around. After being lied to about birth control method failures - he finally insisted that she get a tubal ligation (granted, he could have also done a vasectomy - but I think his intention was to eventually leave her and possibly remarry - and didn't want to think about not being able to have more children.) They were in a loveless marriage - he stayed for our sake - but was miserable. She has mental issues, so life for all of us was hell.
If you aren't worried about ruining your own life - why can't you see that it would be selfish and cruel to ruin the lives of others? Deceit is not a solid foundation for a relationship.
Consider adopting a puppy.
2006-09-22 14:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by oscarschic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who actually tricked his GIRL. He was poking holes in the condoms. Her son is now 8months. I know girls who think like this and want to do things like this, and just a word of advise: If you have to trick him w/ a kid to stay, he doesn't want you. And if you are the kind of person who'll do that, you shouldn't be a mother. Imagine growing up to find out "mommy tricked daddy so they could be together... now he's in jail for beating her cuz she won't let him leave"
2006-09-22 14:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any female who does this for whatever reason is an evil bitc%. That sort of person doesn't deserve a child. The woman is selfish, uncaring and sick in the head. Course - the guy was an idiot for having sex with a psychopathic person like that to begin with. Personally - to women who did this or would do this; I hope he found out, dumped you, sued you, and got custody of the child, and never lets you see it. EVER.
2006-09-22 14:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Forgiven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely wrong, but all of these men out there claiming to be "victims"....well, why didn't you wrap it up? Why weren't you more selective? Why didn't you talk to the girl, and want to see forms or birth control? Hmmm, sounds a little careless to me. Maybe some blame should be put on the men. Women who do completely decieve by faking things and going out of their way to lie, no doubt, wrong.
2006-09-22 15:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would anyone do something so selfish? No tonly is that cruel, it's not fair to the potential father to be. I would never appreciate it if I were a man and a woman trapped me into fathering her child.
2006-09-22 13:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
please reassure your friend that not all of us are sorry like that... I have never & would never do that first of all most men run from comitment & if a girl is so stupid to think that getting pregnant will make him stay I feel bad for her babies & this is a warning to all you guys out there not wearing condoms .... WRAP IT UP!!!! you never know when your g/friend is lying about the pil ( by the way her pill does not protect you from an STD ) & you never know when she is setting you up for a major life altering experiance.......
2006-09-22 14:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ang 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,No NO NO NO!
Doing something like that is HORRIBLE! I can't believe women these days are actually still considering stuff like that!
I hope any woman who does that is dropped like a rock and her BF finds himself another woman.
2006-09-22 14:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by crystal_pepzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think tricking ur bf in to something that he is not ready for is right. You can't trap someone if they don't want u. Being that decieving is morally wrong. do to others as u want others to do to u.
2006-09-22 14:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by lovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who did, just to keep him she popped 3 if not 4 kids out. She's so obessed with him that she didn't want to lose him to any other woman!
2006-09-22 13:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋