I met this guy at school- we've been having fun together and he says he really likes me yet hes still talking to his ex, They were together for a year and he says he doesnt want to be with her but when she texts him he responds, and on his myspace i saw that she had sent him a msg saying "im planning a really fun day for us tomorrow" when him and I had plans to hang out today. We've already slept together so im really pissed......i thought he really liked me....what should i do? i definitely want to keep seeing him but im really mad and how can I tell if hes telling me the truth?
2006-09-22 06:53:10 · 3 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you should do is talk to him about it. There's nothing wrong with him talking to his ex and being friends with her, but he needs to make it very clear that you're the top priority in his life, and the ex is nothing more than a friend. He shouldn't be planning on spending days with his ex, that's for sure. It sure sounds like his ex is trying to get back together with him, and he isn't exactly pushing her away. That's not good, he needs to make a choice and stick with it.
If that doesn't settle things down, talk to his ex. Ask if the relationship is "just friends" or something more - and make it clear that if it's something more, she can have him, because you don't want any part of him if he's cheating on you.
2006-09-22 07:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the fact that you slept with him too quick, you are probably his rebound girl. If they are still talking to/seeing each other, let it go!
2006-09-22 07:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by TYTE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you can get better. He will get back with her. They always do.
2006-09-22 06:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋