Anyway, continued to talk and then one day we just stopped calling each other. Thought she was playing hard to get but wasnt sure. Like I said we both stopped calling one another and I was cool with it. Yesterday recieved a call from her out of the blue. Talked a little and when she got home she said she was gonna take a nap and would call me later. Like clock work never called me back, but I can probably expect a call today. Sounds to me like I only recieve calls on her convience so Im thinking she has a boyfriend, should I call her on it, is she playing hard to get or do I just leave it alone either way no really doesnt hurt my feelings one way or the other.
2006-09-22 06:51:23 · 17 answers · asked by va350 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get on with life
2006-09-22 06:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i know how you feel. i am feeling the same that you are going through. I also met someone and changed my whole life for her and now i feel as if she is doing the same what this one girl is doing to you. (my girl lives far away from me). i am confused so I guess you should do what I am doing. Do not call her anymore and if she calls and things change then start all over again. By all means put your life on hold for at least 3 weeks and if nothing GOOD happens then move on. I say 3 weeks because its enought time to find out and not to long to get all depressed and go nuts. I even put a not by the phone not to call her and I wont even though i like her a lot. Whenever I call she doesnt pick upp but the voice mail comes on and so I feel as if she is screening call or cant pick up because she is with someone else and wont call back either. Oh well I gues its just part of life but 3 weeks is all she has got but I am not telling her this. Good luck and remember that people will take advantage or treat you different if you only ket them. Its your life and there are lots of fish in the sea so stop fishing for 3 weeks then go catch a new one.
2006-09-22 07:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, she's interested in you but is just a very busy girl. Instead of talking about what you two usually talk about, inquire about her life and what she's been doing. You might be surprised to find out what activities she is involved in! Perhaps she plays a sport. Maybe she's in theatre. In that case, ask her where, when, and what time her next play/game is, and see if she wouldn'tmind you attending. Then you could ask her if after the play/game, if she would like to go get ice cream or see a movie. Chances are, she will. And about the not-calling thing, some people are just bad at remembering to call other people back. I wouldn't worry too much. Good luck to you!
2006-09-22 06:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....no matter what you do, do NOT CALL HER! She might be playing hard to get but you have to play along with her. Act like you are not interested, talk to other girls to make her jealous, ignore her phone calls, tell her that you are going to call her and then dont. Trust me, if you do this the more she will want you.
2006-09-22 06:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not playing hard, she's just not looking at the same direction like you wanted her to (for now).
Maybe if you leave her alone for the time being, she might realize the importance of you and possibly run after you in the near future.
It's time for you to come up with excuses, only if you want to give her the same dosage of medicine.
2006-09-22 07:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you waste anymore time on someone who clearly doesn't like you enough to treat you with respect? Imagine the girl that's out there waiting for you to call her and wants you to call her and would love to be taken out by you?? Go find her and leave this stupid girl to her stupid ways.
2006-09-22 06:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my oppion guys should call the girls so that could be the case. Ask her whats going on and if she wants your relationship to go anywhere. Depending on her response, move on or further the relationship.
2006-09-22 06:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship with someone who likes to play games;
pursue her!!!!
When someone says they are going to call and they don't that's a lie......Don't start out a relationship like that!
2006-09-22 06:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would act like it doesn't bother you. Or when she calls you today, don't answer or say "Hey, can I call you right back?" and then don't until tomorrow or a few hours later.
2006-09-22 06:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop the whole thing with her she's either playing games or doesn't really like u...
2006-09-22 06:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me.. leave her alone... let her chase you if she likes you. If she does, you will know she either likes you or is after you cuz she can't have you.. you will know the answer in time.. and you can deal with it accordingly....
2006-09-22 06:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by texas.okie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋